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Old 12-14-2014, 01:48 AM
 
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This guy I've just met in class started asking quite a few questions about my "love" past.
He asked me about a guy from our school I was friend with but not anymore, he told me "what happened, he was crazy about you and you rejected him i'm sure...", which was a joke but, it surprised me and felt like a compliment.
Also he tried to ask about my past bf, insistently, once he teased me for half an hour to get the name of my last boyfriend. He also asked a lot of questions about what happened with this guy I jwas friend with...
Well the thing, I don't have a lot of experience so there wouldn't be a lot of information to deliver anyways, I'm just surprised by his curiosity.
Guys, when you're dying to know more about a girl romantic past, and what happened with her past friends of bf, can it mean that you are into her? Why would he be so curious while we've only met 3 weeks ago?

I must precise he is a very nice and well educated guy, a gentleman really, we talk often, he walks me to my bus station when we finish class together (could only because we get along well and to try to make friends, i don't know).

I must say, I find him charming and I'm starting to like him. He teases me a lot... even physically (he acts silly around me to make me laugh for instance, blocks my way or comes really close to me to tease me if i'm absent minded or not paying attention to him, etc). I must say he's had one or two flirty gestures, like putting a hand on my lower back, but not super often, he mosty jokes and teases me.

Do you think he might like me ? Also, why would he tease me saying "what happenned with the guy ? I'm sure he was madly in love with you and you friendzoned him...", somehow when he said it, it felt flattering, almost flirty, what do you think ?
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Old 12-14-2014, 01:54 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I suppose he likes you, yes.
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Old 12-14-2014, 01:55 AM
 
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Aaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwww
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Old 12-14-2014, 05:11 AM
 
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You will be having sex with him soon enough don't worry.
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Old 12-14-2014, 07:04 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Maybe he does like you. Do you like him?

Tease him right back, saying "you act like you like me, you wanna ask me out?"
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Old 12-14-2014, 07:52 AM
 
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He sounds immensely irritating. Tell him to buzz off.
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Old 12-14-2014, 07:56 AM
 
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Tell him to mind his own business. If he's trying to flirt with you he's not going about it in a particularly nice way. Ask him to stop asking about your past and if you're actually interested in this guy then steer the conversation away from this topic.
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Old 12-14-2014, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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Blocking your way sounds a bit too aggressive. More 6th grade annoying, pull-your-pig-tails type of behavior.
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Old 12-14-2014, 07:59 AM
 
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Blocking your way sounds a bit too aggressive. More 6th grade annoying, pull-your-pig-tails type of behavior.
Exactly. They sound like 12 year olds. How old are you both OP?
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Old 12-14-2014, 08:21 AM
 
Location: D.C.
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He sounds very strange to me. Why is he so interested in who you have been with? I would have said "why do you want to know"? I'd definitely be cautious with this guy.

"Guys, when you're dying to know more about a girl romantic past, and what happened with her past friends of bf, can it mean that you are into her? Why would he be so curious while we've only met 3 weeks ago?"

I've never asked that, and quite frankly it's really none of his business. If you want to talk about it that's one thing, but he is just being nosy.
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