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Old 01-22-2015, 10:01 PM
 
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I'm dating a guy who is 29 years old. I honestly do not have a lot of experience in dating. His best friend is currently in a different state for some business and he told his best friend about me. My guys tells me that his best friend likes me already because according to his best friend, I'm the first girl who makes my guy feel this way. My guy tells me it's an ongoing joke between him and his best friend that my guy is heartless because my guy doesn't feel for any girl and I'm the first girl. So his best friend said damn he wants to meet the first girl who got to him.

Is this a line? Because he's been in relationships before me. how can I be the first to make him feel this way??
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Old 01-22-2015, 10:10 PM
 
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It's hard to tell, men don't all come with the same instruction manual.
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Old 01-22-2015, 10:29 PM
 
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Is this really a question?
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Old 01-22-2015, 10:31 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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Youll know if he introduces you to his friends as
This is my gf Crystalight
This is Christalight
This is the flavor of the week Christasomething
This is my wife for the night

I had girls that I liked. Then there girls that I liked a LOT.

BUT if he is talking about you to his best friend that's usually a good sign. It's the equivalent of you talking about him to your best friend. The only girls I was dating my friends ever knew about were the ones that I liked a lot.
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Old 01-22-2015, 11:05 PM
 
Location: Polynesia
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He sounds smitten. Enjoy!
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Old 01-22-2015, 11:08 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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No, not a line. It sounds genuine. These things happen. You're the first girl he's felt serious about. Cool.
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Old 01-22-2015, 11:19 PM
 
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No, not a line. It sounds genuine. These things happen. You're the first girl he's felt serious about. Cool.
i think ruth is right. generally if a guy doesnt really care about the girl he is dating, he wont brag to his buddies that he is feeling a certain way.
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Old 01-23-2015, 02:04 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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The correct answer to almost any question like this is: he thinks he can talk you into sex OR he means it.
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Old 01-23-2015, 06:03 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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The correct answer to almost any question like this is: he thinks he can talk you into sex OR he means it.
Pretty much.

ALTHOUGH at that age male "best friends" don't usually get involved unless you are at least on the radar. Or they are a duo of psychotic wingmen who go through complicated machinations to get women into bed.

How old are you, OP?
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Old 01-23-2015, 07:02 AM
 
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Only he knows if he means it. How long have you been dating? If it's been less than a month, it sounds like he's love bombing you. That usually isn't good.
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