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Old 01-12-2015, 05:38 PM
 
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You're a guy that only contacts the blonde or brunette that looks fantastic in a bikini and also has a Graduate degree. She would be the best looking girl at the bar but also top of her class in a prestigious law school or some other program. What types of experiences have you had?

I am able to get one or two dates with women like this a week. But they seem to have an incredibly preconceived idea of what chemistry is, and if that is not felt immediately, they have no problem not getting together again because they are probably getting contacted by some many guys.
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Old 01-12-2015, 06:12 PM
 
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Well, what have you found their preconceived idea of chemistry to be?
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Old 01-12-2015, 06:22 PM
 
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An "instant click" ... I believe that is "infatuation" and have been through relationships where that phase ended.
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Old 01-12-2015, 06:26 PM
 
Location: Denver CO
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As opposed to your incredibly preconceived idea that the only women worth dating are those who are the best looking woman at a bar who looks fantastic in a bikini and who graduated at the top of her class at a prestigious law school? Just what is it that you are bringing to the table? Perhaps saying there is no chemistry is just a polite way to say you don't live up to their expectations?
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Old 01-12-2015, 06:26 PM
 
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So what? They didn't like you for whatever reason and that's their prerogative. You can't force a relationship on anyone.
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:03 PM
 
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"Forced" seems like a common word coming up in dating. Like I don't understand and seems weird to me.
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:14 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, Arizona
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I am able to get one or two dates with women like this a week. But they seem to have an incredibly preconceived idea of what chemistry is, and if that is not felt immediately, they have no problem not getting together again because they are probably getting contacted by some many guys.
I boggle at the huge disparity of results guys claim to get with online dating. I can barely get one date a year, yet you say you get one or two a week (let alone with "9s and 10s", which I say is completely subjective but that's here-nor-there).
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:16 PM
 
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It's true. But then after the date they are weird compared to none online dating.
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:20 PM
 
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I boggle at the huge disparity of results guys claim to get with online dating. I can barely get one date a year, yet you say you get one or two a week (let alone with "9s and 10s", which I say is completely subjective but that's here-nor-there).
I raised an eyebrow at the OP's claims myself. Who knew that so many 9s and 10s even did online dating?
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:24 PM
 
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I'm not lying. Just trying to find people going through the same thing and see what their experience is.
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