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This is a different guy, I am not referring to the one I recently posted about it. However, I am very close to him too. I am close to this guy, and we hang a lot. He flirted with me a lot, but I was seeing a guy at the time, so I rejected him. He seemed very interested in me, but it turned into a friendship. Now, I am single, and I wanted to give him a chance, but I don't like how he tried to hook me up with his friend. He sent me a pic of him and this dude. Here's a text conversation.
Him: Do you think he's cute?
Me: (I didn't want to be mean) Yeah. Who's that?
Him: My dude. He wants to chill and meet you friday.
Me: Umm..Eric what are you trying to do? Lol. I don't want hooked up bro!
Him: He can't get any girl, so I told him of you, and he thought he was ugly.
Me: Aww..he's not ugly, but I don't want to be hooked up.
Him: Naw, I wasn't. He thought he was ugly. That's all.
Him: I wasn't trying to hook you up, I was hooking him up lol.
I guess this is a for sure sign he's not into me anymore? What do you get from this? Is he playing games? He was very interested in me in the beginning, but now this threw me off because he was trying to hook his friend up with me. I don't know. I want to hear your perspective on it. Thanks.
So because it didn't work out with the last guy you were with.....you want this guy now?
I don't want to sound men but that's kind of selfish. It seems like you expected the guy to wait for you until you were done with your last relationship. That's not cool. I don't think your "friend" would take that well either.
If it was me I personally wouldn't try it and enjoy being single for the time being.
So because it didn't work out with the last guy you were with.....you want this guy now?
I don't want to sound men but that's kind of selfish. It seems like you expected the guy to wait for you until you were done with your last relationship. That's not cool. I don't think your "friend" would take that well either.
If it was me I personally wouldn't try it and enjoy being single for the time being.
No, I liked him. Even when I was with the other guy, but I felt bad because it's like why be with someone if you like someone else or you don't have strong feelings for them? So I broke up with him. It wasn't fair to him that the feelings weren't mutual. I do enjoy being single, I like my friend a lot though, and it has become stronger because of us hanging out so much, and I was going to progress it, but that whole hooking me up with his friend thing really threw me off. Now it's making me question, and I guess now he doesn't have feelings for me. So I am pretty upset about it I thought he liked me, but I guess he doesn't anymore. I honestly didn't expect him to wait. Thank you for sharing your input! I appreciate it.
No, I liked him. Even when I was with the other guy, but I felt bad because it's like why be with someone if you like someone else or you don't have strong feelings for them? So I broke up with him. It wasn't fair to him that the feelings weren't mutual. I do enjoy being single, I like my friend a lot though, and it has become stronger because of us hanging out so much, and I was going to progress it, but that whole hooking me up with his friend thing really threw me off. Now it's making me question, and I guess now he doesn't have feelings for me. So I am pretty upset about it I thought he liked me, but I guess he doesn't anymore. I honestly didn't expect him to wait. Thank you for sharing your input! I appreciate it.
Why not just talk to him? It's not that hard to put it out there, just communicate.
If a man interested in you wont introduce his friends. And for you it is better choose one and try to get to know than flirt here and there. When you do that you make your own self so cheap.
I think when guys get rejected they get mad so they pretend they don't like the girl anymore even when many still do... am I wrong here?
I think so.
At least in my circle, if a guy is "rejected", there is no getting mad, you just move on.
To the OP, again, why not just talk to the guy. Most guys I know would find it refreshing if a girl would just come out and say, "Hey, I'm interested". There is no need for games.
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I think when guys get rejected they get mad so they pretend they don't like the girl anymore even when many still do... am I wrong here?
When I do it, it damn sure ain't "pretend." I'm done with the woman in the physical and mental sense.
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I thought he liked me, but I guess he doesn't anymore. I honestly didn't expect him to wait. Thank you for sharing your input! I appreciate it.
