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I was talking with one of my close female friends, who is 30, and who just went out with a guy on Monday. She mentioned that he was coming on pretty strong and was also "sexting" her quite a bit. And she was kind of into it.
I've been seeing a girl for a little over two months and it would have never occurred to me to "sext" her. For one, I'm a big advocate of actions speak louder than words. Secondly, I find the concept a little immature and perverse, and something better left for the juvenile crowd. Thirdly, I guess I'd feel weird sending something like that to a woman that's special to me, as if she's my sex object that I get to play with later but talk about it now.
Am I just being prudish about this behavior? If so, when would you start engaging in this type of thing? At this point, I'd feel a little uneasy in doing this sort of thing, because I've not really picked up a vibe from her that she'd be receptive towards it (i.e. she hasn't sent me any provocative texts or even talked about it). Would you find it odd to receive a random text one day from your SO telling you that s/he wants to do XYZ dirty things to you?
It's one of many forms of foreplay. Hell yes, I'm a participant. It's healthy. It's just talking dirty and teasing, building anticipation until that evening.
Oddly enough; I write erotica, and I'm really, really, really kinky, but I don't really care for cyber sex. I've done my share. Hopefully for those that do- you can live up to it.
He's my boyfriend, not my husband. I still don't see the problem if we are in the same city or 3000 miles apart. Sometimes you have things to do that night and can't go over the other person's house.
Why does anyone care so much what other people do?
I personally couldn't care less about what you and your husband do.
The point of the OP is not about what you and your husband do and whether or not it is right or wrong.
The point was to gauge the interest of a specific topic (sexting) as it pertains to romantic relationships. I was simply curious if a large number of people in my demographic found it appealing.
I personally couldn't care less about what you and your husband do.
The point of the OP is not about what you and your husband do and whether or not it is right or wrong.
The point was to gauge the interest of a specific topic (sexting) as it pertains to romantic relationships. I was simply curious if a large number of people in my demographic found it appealing.
Fair enough.
But why do you keep insisting that he is my husband??? lol
As I tell my kids, once it's out there in cyberworld, it's out there forever. Never take a photo or text something that you wouldn't want your employer or future mother-in-law to see.
But why do you keep insisting that he is my husband??? lol
Sorry, I don't know why I thought that. Correction, your boyfriend.
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