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So everyone in the dating world experiencing single life often fail to correlate their presentation and the type of men or women they consistently attract. Steve Harvey said when a man first views you he is measuring if he can afford you, your type, or any other information he can gather before approach beyond finding you attractive. The reality is your presentation ideally should reflect how you feel about yourself. Do you feel this is true in the dating world? If you love yourself shouldn't your presentation display the love and value you have for yourself? If you are a corporate professional and you leave your place in wrinkled dirty jeans with a shirt you pulled from the laundry basket and a pair of tennis shoes falling apart at the seams......???
Yes, I acknowledged there is a time and place for everything and appearance/looks aren't everything, upon initial evaluation it is important.
THE RULE NOT THE EXCEPTION
Patti Stanger-Millionaire Matchmaker, goes hard when encountering people because she acknowledges presentation will capture or turn off someone when it comes to dating. Why do people fight this idea? Sure prince charming will show up at the ball-room event and be intrigued by your wrinkled pants, loud behavior inappropriate for a classy affair, and be drawn to those bedazzled houseshoes. No.
Does your presentation match your personality and reflect how you value yourself?
Do you think it's an unfair determination, based on outside presentation, to determine if you want to get to know someone?
So everyone in the dating world experiencing single life often fail to correlate their presentation and the type of men or women they consistently attract. Steve Harvey said when a man first views you he is measuring if he can afford you, your type, or any other information he can gather before approach beyond finding you attractive. The reality is your presentation ideally should reflect how you feel about yourself. Do you feel this is true in the dating world? If you love yourself shouldn't your presentation display the love and value you have for yourself? If you are a corporate professional and you leave your place in wrinkled dirty jeans with a shirt you pulled from the laundry basket and a pair of tennis shoes falling apart at the seams......???
Yes, I acknowledged there is a time and place for everything and appearance/looks aren't everything, upon initial evaluation it is important.
THE RULE NOT THE EXCEPTION
Patti Stanger-Millionaire Matchmaker, goes hard when encountering people because she acknowledges presentation will capture or turn off someone when it comes to dating. Why do people fight this idea? Sure prince charming will show up at the ball-room event and be intrigued by your wrinkled pants, loud behavior inappropriate for a classy affair, and be drawn to those bedazzled houseshoes. No.
Does your presentation match your personality and reflect how you value yourself?
Do you think it's an unfair determination, based on outside presentation, to determine if you want to get to know someone?
How many corporate professionals wear wrinkled or worn-out clothes during their free time? How many people fight the idea that looking presentable at all times is a good idea? I've found the opposite to be true on talk shows and in real life; even entry-level office workers make an effort to look nice going to the grocery store (or whatever), because "you never know when you might meet someone", they say. Most single women know guys may be checking them out in public, and make an effort to look not just presentable, but attractive.
Mannnnnnnnn, screw all that bs. The only presentation women need is a curvy body with an attractive hip to waist ratio. You can walk out in these streets in nothing but some blue jeans and a plain white tank top. The sneakers bursting at the seams and the dinginess of the jeans will not matter.
Mannnnnnnnn, screw all that bs. The only presentation women need is a curvy body with an attractive hip to waist ratio. You can walk out in these streets in nothing but some blue jeans and a plain white tank top. The sneakers bursting at the seams and the dinginess of the jeans will not matter.
You need more than the right hip to waist ratio. There's more than that to having curves.
Mannnnnnnnn, screw all that bs. The only presentation women need is a curvy body with an attractive hip to waist ratio. You can walk out in these streets in nothing but some blue jeans and a plain white tank top. The sneakers bursting at the seams and the dinginess of the jeans will not matter.
Lol.I always brush my hair, have a little mascara on, etc. But I live on a block with literally 10 bars/ restaurants. There are hundreds of bars within a mile radius of my apartment. I cannot walk my dog without seeing and being-seen. Am I going to run into "the one" in the party district of town? Who knows? Admittedly I'm not dressed for my profession every time I step outside my door to the gathering horde, but that's my life. My apologies to Steve Harvey.
Oh, and I'd love to run into Patti Stanger or one of her assistants one day, and have them criticize my hair and take me up to Santa Monica or wherever and set me up on a date with one of her socially inept millionaires (sincerely) but I just don't think it's gonna happen.
Last edited by planetelle; 06-06-2015 at 06:02 PM..
Reason: forgot to address TMM
I agree with the curvy body.
I go outside with big hoop earrings, jeans, high heels, and a white top. And I have guys that keep approach me asked for my number.
And I'm just a petite height girl, but I'm curvy.
Lord, when I first met my husband and we were friends. I caught him keep looking at my a-s-s, yup, he stares at my a-s-s, that how BLUNT he can be.
We married now, and he kiss my butt cheek all the times. And it partly my fault too, because I have the habit of sleeping on my stomach.
I think I married an a-s-s man, lol
You need more than the right hip to waist ratio. There's more than that to having curves.
No there isnt. Just wear a ponytail, normal hygeine, thats pretty much it. Men prefer a sexy body than a cute, makeup layered face anyway. Human males can examine a tight waist to hip ratio from over 100 feet away. The rest doesnt matter. Most women have basic hygeine anyway, so there isnt much, just have a great bidy, as far as visual presentation is concerned, its too easy for us.
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My apologies to Steve Harvey.
