She always wants to know what nights I stay?

[jdmil]

I don't think there's anything behind her asking you to tell her when you'll be coming over. In fact, as petty as it might sound, I'd be a little annoyed if you were trying to pick apart my motives behind my asking. It's just a common courtesy. It's her home not the student center at the local college.

[NewbiePoster]

Originally Posted by jdmil;

I don't think there's anything behind her asking you to tell her when you'll be coming over. In fact, as petty as it might sound, I'd be a little annoyed if you were trying to pick apart my motives behind my asking. It's just a common courtesy. It's her home not the student center at the local college.

The OP sounds like he doesn't have much experience with this kind of thing. Like maybe it's his first relationship where he's spending a few nights each week at the gf's place.

[JanND]

Originally Posted by zimmermanmatt

My girlfriend lives 30 miles away or around that. Usually 3-4 nights I'll come over and stay since my work is actually closer to her place. (She doesn't mind, it's not like I just intrude)

ANyway I have realized every week she always asks what nights I'm staying. I questioned hwy she wants to know and her reason was that she wanted to know what night she would be free to have plans with her friends

I don't really know if i should be trusting that thought process so Im starting to wonder if I should look into it?

Or is she right in asking?

So silly. So you get to be the one who is in control of this relationship?? Worry when she starts telling you what nights you can stay.

[1986pacecar]

Looks like the OP checked out, another one and done poster.

[oh-eve]

I would drive by the days you are not staying over. And check her phone periodically. Sniff on the bed sheets. Check her trash cans for evidence.

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by oh-eve

Sniff on the bed sheets.

You didn't strike me as the kinky type.

[manalone]

dude its her place..shes planning aorund you