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Been dating this girl. Last night she went out with some girls. They invited a few others over for drinks. She texted me saying "Hey johns coming over so maybe you shouldnt come"
I played it off
John also came to her place to spend the night
I went to her apartment and flipped out cursing, yelling at her and all that
she sat and calmy said " I didnt invite you because I knew you would act jealous. He's a friend! The other girls also invited him. He stayed the night because he doesnt know the other girls as well. he's just a friend, but you and i are no longer a couple. I'm not gonna get harassed for doing nothing wrong"
Ok, you posted about one incident, but how was your relationship in general? Did something like this happen before: she lied to you and one of you blew things out of proportion? Were you happy together or did you have many arguments?
She wouldn't tell you about her guy friend for fear of you being jealous. If she's keeping little/huge (depending upon how you see this situation) secrets from you and if little/huge things that she does or her friends do upset you, then this relationship might not work out. Someone's gotta give, and I doubt she'll give up her friends for you. She's already made that pretty clear by breaking up with you.
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