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Old 06-28-2015, 05:35 PM
 
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So just came across this article, and was wondering how many people agree with it? I know this guy Evan Marc Katz is a bit controversial, but I feel like he really gives some insight into the way men think.

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dat...you-after-sex/

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Old 06-28-2015, 05:45 PM
 
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So just came across this article, and was wondering how many people agree with it? I know this guy Evan Marc Katz is a bit controversial, but I feel like he really gives some insight into the way men think.

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dat...you-after-sex/
Might want to fix your link....but the dude is a jerk....if someone claims to know how men (or women) think they are lying to make a buck,
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Old 06-28-2015, 05:48 PM
 
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Might want to fix your link....but the dude is a jerk....if someone claims to know how men (or women) think they are lying to make a buck,
Thanks...fixed!
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Old 06-28-2015, 05:57 PM
 
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LOL. Have never heard from him. His "About" section is woeful.

read the article, thought it was vague and full of not much, really.

I mean this

"Our actions reveal whether there’s any deeper intentions behind our words.

So again, the only way you can tell if a guy is sincere is by WHAT KIND OF EFFORT HE MAKES FOR YOU AFTER YOU GO OUT."
isn't exactly ground breaking stuff.
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Old 06-28-2015, 06:03 PM
 
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LOL. Have never heard from him. His "About" section is woeful.

read the article, thought it was vague and full of not much, really.

I mean this

"Our actions reveal whether thereā€™s any deeper intentions behind our words.

So again, the only way you can tell if a guy is sincere is by WHAT KIND OF EFFORT HE MAKES FOR YOU AFTER YOU GO OUT."
isn't exactly ground breaking stuff.
I totally agree some of the stuff he writes is pretty much common sense.

I think the part that got me was this:

"When I was dating prolifically, Iā€™d be going out with two or three women at a time. And every single time I went out, I did two things:

I tried to be the best date I possibly could. Iā€™d call, email, express interest, plan a good date, show up on time, etc.
I tried to make her want me really badly. Iā€™d listen, Iā€™d lean in, Iā€™d flirt, Iā€™d compliment her.
In short, I wanted every single date to feel good about me, so I would have the option of going out with her again. Sometimes, weā€™d hug goodbye. Other times, weā€™d drunkenly go back to her place. But no matter what, I was looking to keep my options open, have fun, and sometimes get a little action. And yes, I was always in pursuit of a long-term relationship. I just didnā€™t want to deprive myself entirely of sexual activity until I fell in love."

I understand making the most of every date you go on but as a woman I only kiss and compliment guys I'm into, however he is basically saying men don't have to be into you to do those things...and yes I know there's many people on these forums who say the same thing.
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Old 06-28-2015, 06:08 PM
 
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People actually pay for this advise?
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Old 06-28-2015, 06:13 PM
 
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People actually pay for this advise?
Apparently, I think he has two book out if I'm not mistaken.
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Old 06-28-2015, 06:13 PM
 
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People actually pay for this advise?
....exactly.
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Old 06-28-2015, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Pa
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What he says is true but many already know this.
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Old 06-29-2015, 12:32 AM
 
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So just came across this article, and was wondering how many people agree with it? I know this guy Evan Marc Katz is a bit controversial, but I feel like he really gives some insight into the way men think.

How To Guarantee A Guy Calls You After Sex
Some people are really good at putting an act, and some people like to make others feel good.. Moral of the story, you have to give the relationship time and see the person for what they are before you allow them into your space.
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