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Old 06-29-2015, 02:41 PM
 
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Please don't tell us he is your boss......!
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Old 06-29-2015, 03:13 PM
 
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"It's been almost a year in the making."

Really? You've been waiting for that man to move a mountain for a year? If he won't even walk across a room and talk to you in all that time, don't expect any mountain moving on his part. I'd move something if I were you.....move on.
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Old 06-29-2015, 03:16 PM
 
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Doesn't sound like he knows you well enough to really like you.
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Old 06-29-2015, 03:26 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Move mountains? Grandiose gestures aren't necessary, and certainly not welcomed by all. Even as an idiom it's a bit too intense. Why does a mountain need to be moved, unless someone is too damn lazy to climb it or go around it?
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Old 06-29-2015, 05:27 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Ha! No.
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Old 06-29-2015, 06:24 PM
 
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Why don't you make the first move?

Take the bull by the . . . * cough * . . . horn(s).
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Old 06-29-2015, 07:58 PM
 
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"It's been almost a year in the making."

Really? You've been waiting for that man to move a mountain for a year? If he won't even walk across a room and talk to you in all that time, don't expect any mountain moving on his part. I'd move something if I were you.....move on.
I agree with this. If he does like you but can't or won't approach, there is a reason for that. He may be shy. He may be taken. He may think you're taken. He may be a player, trying to get you to take the bait. He may be emotionally unavailable. You just don't know.

If the chemistry is strong enough and it is a true fit, he will do something. In the meantime, don't push it. Just get on with your life and don't pay too much mind to this. No use in getting caught up in "what if's".
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Old 06-30-2015, 09:44 AM
 
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How can you be positive he doesn't already have someone?
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Old 06-30-2015, 11:30 AM
 
Location: california
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I've said Hi to plenty of people, and gotten nothing in reply, I don't take it any further, theres no point.
If some one is so insecure that they choose no to communicate after being approached ,let it go.
People that don't know them self , don't make good conversationalists /communicators. so getting to their true feelings, might be a real challange.
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Old 06-30-2015, 12:20 PM
 
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How can you be positive he doesn't already have someone?
someone who isn't standing in the shadows waiting for a mountain to be moved...not even a mole hill
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