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Old 07-06-2015, 12:21 AM
 
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I mean I don't know what women like or want in a guy but if never had much luck? How important are looks? My problem is that there are very few girls that I know well. So there is not much initial attraction. I'm guessing thats the looks. Can I Pm a girl a face pic and get an honest opinion on looks?

 
Old 07-06-2015, 07:24 AM
 
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Women, being different from one another, like different things in a man. You say there are very few girls you know, yet you are quick to determine that it must be your looks which is why they are not attracted to you. Get out more. Go to places where you can meet women.
PM'ing a picture of yourself to a stranger on a posting board is setting yourself up for ridicule. There are quite a few posters on this board who would love to put you down because they have proven that they can be cruel.
 
Old 07-06-2015, 09:00 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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I mean I don't know what women like or want in a guy
There is no one thing for 'women'.
We are all individuals and we are all attracted to different aspects of a person.

Get out and date more. That is the only way to find the right one(s).
 
Old 07-06-2015, 10:17 AM
 
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confidence is key
being fun...funny is second
looks not as important if you have these...a phat wallet doesn't hurt either

if a man is fugly, boring, AND broke...forget it...fix what can be fixed...
 
Old 07-06-2015, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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I mean I don't know what women like or want in a guy but if never had much luck? How important are looks? My problem is that there are very few girls that I know well. So there is not much initial attraction. I'm guessing thats the looks. Can I Pm a girl a face pic and get an honest opinion on looks?

its not your looks, its your game.

I am not an attractive guy but I have a hot wife, she loves my personality.
 
Old 07-06-2015, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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I mean I don't know what women like or want in a guy but if never had much luck? How important are looks? My problem is that there are very few girls that I know well. So there is not much initial attraction. I'm guessing thats the looks. Can I Pm a girl a face pic and get an honest opinion on looks?
Every straight guy I know between the ages of 18-40 who have bad luck with women like you are either: a) Ugly in a doofusy/nerdy/sloppy kind of way; or b) they are religious freaks. Which of these are you?

When I say doofusy/nerdy types I mean think of the comic book store owner in the Simpsons. Kinda flabby, drags feet when walks, not very neat. Dont get me wrong, there are some rather unattractive guys who get women. Like one of my neighbors, dude has the grandest grizzly adams beard and is balding, only late 20s, but he's super super nice. I mean very polite and nice. Has a hot Romanian American wife and they are totally cool. He's someone very very few women would probably go for, but he's well kept/groomed. Never sloppy. Never drags his feet.

I say to you what I say to the women here who have similar problems with the opposite sex - GET IN SHAPE!! No one has ever seen an 18-40 year old male or female with nice fit body who struggle to find a date.
 
Old 07-06-2015, 12:12 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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its not your looks, its your game.

I am not an attractive guy but I have a hot wife, she loves my personality.
In a nutshell.
 
Old 07-06-2015, 12:24 PM
 
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One thing
To be interesting be interested
This may help
 
Old 07-06-2015, 12:44 PM
 
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confidence is key
being fun...funny is second
looks not as important if you have these...a phat wallet doesn't hurt either

if a man is fugly, boring, AND broke...forget it...fix what can be fixed...
SECOND?!?! What the fudge!!!

Well, I guess being confident that you are able to laugh at yourself is good too.
 
Old 07-06-2015, 12:45 PM
 
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In a nutshell.
I'm a nutshell.
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