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So I have been talking to this girl now since mid-January, and we are about to go on spring break so I wanted to ask her out before then. Just wondering what the best method is, as in how should I bring up the topic? What exactly should I say and should it be casual or more serious? Any advice is helpful, as I've never really asked out a girl.
Edit: My biggest concern is how to bring up the topic.
How would you ask anyone to do something with you? Simply say, "hey, you wanna see a movie with me?" Just throw it out there when the conversation is flowing along. Be sure to have an activity in mind that you're pretty sure she'll enjoy, preferably something you've already talked about.
How would you ask anyone to do something with you? Simply say, "hey, you wanna see a movie with me?" Just throw it out there when the conversation is flowing along. Be sure to have an activity in mind that you're pretty sure she'll enjoy, preferably something you've already talked about.
It's been almost two months. At this point, the girl either is waiting for you to ask her out or not interested. There's no magical formula of things to say or do that will make a girl who doesn't want to go out with you suddenly want to go out with you. In my experience, the only way you can really mess up asking her out is to not do it. So just do it. And be clear that you're asking her out. On a date. Not as friends. And have a definitive time and place in mind to start with but be flexible.
So I have been talking to this girl now since mid-January, and we are about to go on spring break so I wanted to ask her out before then. Just wondering what the best method is, as in how should I bring up the topic? What exactly should I say and should it be casual or more serious? Any advice is helpful, as I've never really asked out a girl.
Edit: My biggest concern is how to bring up the topic.
Be honest. Be real. Don't use any hokey pick up lines. The best method is to ask her out in your own natural voice and in the way you naturally would.
You ask them, "would you like to go to ______ with me on ______"? The probability that you will mate in some way is the product of the possibility that you will like her x the probability that she will like you.
Simple.
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