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Old 07-09-2015, 11:50 PM
 
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Right now, I'm on the night shift and will be for the forseeable future. It's the only time I can meet women now and I'm usually waltzing around the area from 11 PM to about 3 AM. During this time, I do spot women walking by that I find quite attractive.

It's not a bustling time, all the streets are calm and nobody is really out. It's usually just me and the occasional car/taxi that passes by. What's the protocol for hitting on girls this late at night? It's not exactly like a bar or giant social gathering, it's just her and me in this lonely street.

Any advice? I couldn't find any guides here.
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Old 07-10-2015, 12:01 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Lol, not good idea hitting on women late at night out on the streets. Unless, she's a street walker.
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Old 07-10-2015, 12:38 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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You posted the same exact post here: How to hit on girls late at night? - LoveShack.org Community Forums

Still trying to find that "guide"?
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Old 07-10-2015, 01:55 AM
 
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You don't.
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Old 07-10-2015, 02:33 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Those women job is to look attractive. You can hit them with $50 or less.
Good luck!
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Old 07-10-2015, 04:19 AM
 
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I'm going to assume you're a normal guy looking to meet someone, but this is not the way to do it...sounds like you lurk about in the shadows watching women as they come and go, hoping for eye contact and a smile at three in the goddamned morning. Come on, man. I used to give female friends and co-workers mace just for guys like you.

Whether you're a decent guy or not, no thinking woman will be open to meeting an eager stranger on a dark street (or even a well-lit subway car) at an odd hour. You sound like a vampire.
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Old 07-10-2015, 04:32 AM
 
Location: IN>Germany>ND>OH>TX>CA>Currently NoVa and a Vacation Lake House in PA
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Those women job is to look attractive. You can hit them with $50 or less.
Good luck!
Thank you for that! I needed a little humor this morning.
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Old 07-10-2015, 04:57 AM
 
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You really want to hit on girls that are walking around the streets at 3am? You might want to up the bar on Quality if its a relationship you are after, if its just a novelty sexual encounter you are after just walk up to them and tell them of your needs chances are good they'll fulfill those needs,perhaps for a price.
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Old 07-10-2015, 05:15 AM
 
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Seriously? You sound desperate to me. If a woman was out that late at night and approached by a stranger on the street who was making a play for her, she may suspect him of foul play and try to get away. Thank God for cell phones where you can easily ring up the police or your obsessive weight lifting friend, Bubba.
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Old 07-10-2015, 06:03 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Seriously? You sound desperate to me. If a woman was out that late at night and approached by a stranger on the street who was making a play for her, she may suspect him of foul play and try to get away. Thank God for cell phones where you can easily ring up the police or your obsessive weight lifting friend, Bubba.
Pretty much my answer too.

She's going to be on guard and feel threatened. Not a good way to go about meeting women. There are plenty of better options.
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