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I had an older friend tell me and this was in regards to dating. He says I can be intense at times, but that is partly due to my level of success in life and wanting to accomplish things. Constantly pushing myself.
I have been told by gfs because that I can come off as intimidating. I made a thread about this before lol...tall athletic black guy with a shaved head lol. I work as an engineer in my daytime (IT/Web Hosting) and in my spare time I lift weights and am currently training for an MMA fight. Working hard on my finances and that's going great also.
I think maybe I give off this air that I'm above certain stuff BUT that isn't really me! I just have high standards for myself and I think that throws people off.
How can I tone it down a bit. Thoughts guys and ladies?
I had an older friend tell me and this was in regards to dating. He says I can be intense at times, but that is partly due to my level of success in life and wanting to accomplish things. Constantly pushing myself.
I have been told by gfs because that I can come off as intimidating. I made a thread about this before lol...tall athletic black guy with a shaved head lol. I work as an engineer in my daytime (IT/Web Hosting) and in my spare time I lift weights and am currently training for an MMA fight. Working hard on my finances and that's going great also.
I think maybe I give off this air that I'm above certain stuff BUT that isn't really me! I just have high standards for myself and I think that throws people off.
How can I tone it down a bit. Thoughts guys and ladies?
Turn your focus outward. Volunteer more. Think of others first.
By the time they are your GFs they should know you.... so why would you still be intimidating?
I've been told I am intimidating by lots of people, but that's only when they first meet me.
For first impressions, the advice to smile more is golden.
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Just the impression from the outside. They said "at first you come off as intimidating...but once I knew you / once you smiled".
I find it beneficial. /lol
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I had an older friend tell me and this was in regards to dating. He says I can be intense at times, but that is partly due to my level of success in life and wanting to accomplish things. Constantly pushing myself.
I have been told by gfs because that I can come off as intimidating. I made a thread about this before lol...tall athletic black guy with a shaved head lol. I work as an engineer in my daytime (IT/Web Hosting) and in my spare time I lift weights and am currently training for an MMA fight. Working hard on my finances and that's going great also.
I think maybe I give off this air that I'm above certain stuff BUT that isn't really me! I just have high standards for myself and I think that throws people off.
How can I tone it down a bit. Thoughts guys and ladies?
I don't know, but it sounds positive if you ask me.
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