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I know what you're thinking. No, no, no, no! But hear me out.
I was thinking about contacting my ex after he comes home from work in September to have casual sex.
I've only slept with him and 1 other person that has moved to Texas. It's very hard for me to open up to someone and trust them when it comes to sex. I'm a very reserved person. I already feel comfortable with him and I know we have fun together.
By the time it's mid-September, I'm definitely going to be emotionally over the relationship and have accepted we will never be together again. It wasn't meant to be. Fine. But at the same time, I still want to have sex. I don't think feelings can come back if we're having sex with no strings attached. If it's 100% just for fun. I will be dating other people too but it might take me a while to get back into another relationship where it's okay to have sex.
What I'm saying is I feel like it's safer than to find someone new that I'm not exclusively dating. Because technically at school I could find anyone to sleep with but I don't trust just anyone obviously. Opinions?
I know what you're thinking. No, no, no, no! But hear me out.
I was thinking about contacting my ex after he comes home from work in September to have casual sex.
I've only slept with him and 1 other person that has moved to Texas. It's very hard for me to open up to someone and trust them when it comes to sex. I'm a very reserved person. I already feel comfortable with him and I know we have fun together.
By the time it's mid-September, I'm definitely going to be emotionally over the relationship and have accepted we will never be together again. It wasn't meant to be. Fine. But at the same time, I still want to have sex. I don't think feelings can come back if we're having sex with no strings attached. If it's 100% just for fun. I will be dating other people too but it might take me a while to get back into another relationship where it's okay to have sex.
What I'm saying is I feel like it's safer than to find someone new that I'm not exclusively dating. Because technically at school I could find anyone to sleep with but I don't trust just anyone obviously. Opinions?
Is this the guy who was out of your league and broke up with you? Yes it makes perfect sense to have sex with him!!! Sounds like your in the mood for getting even.
I know what you're thinking. No, no, no, no! But hear me out.
I was thinking about contacting my ex after he comes home from work in September to have casual sex.
I've only slept with him and 1 other person that has moved to Texas. It's very hard for me to open up to someone and trust them when it comes to sex. I'm a very reserved person. I already feel comfortable with him and I know we have fun together.
By the time it's mid-September, I'm definitely going to be emotionally over the relationship and have accepted we will never be together again. It wasn't meant to be. Fine. But at the same time, I still want to have sex. I don't think feelings can come back if we're having sex with no strings attached. If it's 100% just for fun. I will be dating other people too but it might take me a while to get back into another relationship where it's okay to have sex.
What I'm saying is I feel like it's safer than to find someone new that I'm not exclusively dating. Because technically at school I could find anyone to sleep with but I don't trust just anyone obviously. Opinions?
Indeed you will be emotionally over the relationship in theory until after you have sex with him the first time then reality will hit very hard and fast and you will be emotionally attached almost immediately.
So, what you're saying to us is...you're going to try and do this anyways? And you tried to justify your sexual behavior with that 'new relationship' excuse, so that some of us will maybe say, 'go ahead?' So, you can feel okay with doing this? Just do what you wanna do. Btw, the comments saying, 'no' are right, but do what you want to do.
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