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People, people, people, WE ARE NOT talking about someone changing religions here. Cook 3 times out of the week, make it an intimate experience, make ir fun, and then eat out on the weekends.
But...
It is absurd when you consider A. She agreed to go to his home, eat his meal, like it, all to have a cow because he likes to cook rather than eat out.
B. It's absurd considering more than likely she's expecting the man to pay those lofty tabs each night of the week (no? Then she could of invited him to her favorite restuarant)
C. It's absurs considering many relationships end over lying and wondering eyes and she nipped it off of something sooo silly as someone liking to cook.
It's simple. The woman could of asked if he'd be open to eating out sometimes, since she's a "foodie," or whatever...
However, she didn't even bother having that conversation to see if they could of come to some sort of compromise.
She just needed an excuse to 68 him.
Maybe she wasn't that into him, anyway. But we don't know exactly what type of conversation they had about going out to eat. She probably did ask him if he'd be open to eating out occasionally. Otherwise, how would she have found out he wasn't open to it?
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Maybe she wasn't that into him, anyway. But we don't know exactly what type of conversation they had about going out to eat. She probably did ask him if he'd be open to eating out occasionally. Otherwise, how would she have found out he wasn't open to it?
Well that's what I'm saying...it just sounds like an excuse to ditch him.
And the OP told her he preferred cooking his meals than going out to eat.
Well that's what I'm saying...it just sounds like an excuse to ditch him.
And the OP told her he preferred cooking his meals than going out to eat.
He said he doesn't eat out, too, when she asked where he likes to go out for his meals. It sounds like he was pretty final about it. I still suspect he came across oddly during the date, so when he said he doesn't eat out, that probably clinched it for her.
It is absurd when you consider A. She agreed to go to his home, eat his meal, like it, all to have a cow because he likes to cook rather than eat out.
You don't know that she liked it. When someone prepares a meal for you, you say you like it, whether you do or not. And given the context, I think she just saw his position on eating out as a red flag that he is a bit weird or quirky.
He said he doesn't eat out, too, when she asked where he likes to go out for his meals. It sounds like he was pretty final about it. I still suspect he came across oddly during the date, so when he said he doesn't eat out, that probably clinched it for her.
That's not what I said. The OP sounds like he may have a germ phobia about restaurant food. So I was suspecting he may have come across oddly in general during the date. I suspect there's more to the story than what he's told us.
She wants a guy to take her to a nice restaurant as a preliminary sign that he will spend money on her and be a provider.
To you, everything is about hypergamy. And mysteriously, it's never about men marrying up (though some do that). It's always about women marrying for money.
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