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actually you are saving money and hassle, but I feel ya, I don't do the hooker thing but I have went through periods of one night stands. and yes it's like trying to fix a gunshot wound with a band-aid, many will say get a girlfriend, like its so easy but its not. dating has not been easy since 1991. something evil happened to women in the 2000's, it became all about what you can do for them instead of do they enjoy your company. at least those hookers are upfront about it. It is harder to find a mate than it should be.
I'm just curious where you ever got the idea that paying women to have sex with you would be fulfilling?
I don't think 7/11 food is fulfilling, but if I'm hungry and its the only place open.........
Many who go to working girls are those who have a hard time convincing non working girls to share a bed with them on a permanent basis.
If the average woman was not so picky, or wives/girlfriends weren't so with holding, hookers would be out of business.
You are not happy with the hookers anymore. Then quit.
You want a full filling relationship with a girl. Pursue it.
Call up your old friends. Have your close friend introduce you to more people.
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Originally Posted by timberline742
This. Stop being a recluse. Stop wasting your money on hookers (I can't believe dudes do this).
well said. OP you need to grow up and stop chasing women foe the perceived pleasure of sex only. prostitutes and escorts will only go so far to get you where you want to be, its time to become a true man and find a real girlfriend to spend time with.
but before you can do that, you first have to be happy with yourself as the person you are. if you are not happy with who you are right now, then you need to make the changes in your life that will make you happy. learn to be more assertive with people, but also learn to be more diplomatic at the same time.
The OP has issues with self that led him to choose prostitutes. Women didn't drive him to it.
Exactly. If a man won't put in the effort to try to meet women, the problem is not the women. If a man can't make a single connection with a woman that ever results in sex, the problem is still not the women.
The thing is, i just feel it gives me the opportunity to have sex with women i wouldn't otherwise have the opportunity to even meet, let alone get the chance to sleep with. I am not saying i am unattractive or socially inept because i am not, but i don't go out to clubs, and when i do there are at least 3/4 guys to every one girl, so it just gets tiring to meet women that way because too many guys are competing for one woman which is craziness.
I can pay for certain amount of money and have sex with a hot, incredible bodied woman for an hour or more of fun. I guess some of it is laziness on my part, but i don't particulalry think so because i find it more satisfying to pay for a hot woman that waste my time trying to compete with guys for a woman's attention.
Uh-huh.
But that's not what you said, and that's not what I asked. You said: "I used to enjoy it at first, but now i just don't feel fulfilled and in fact, i am starting to feel miserable about it all. " (emphasis mine)
And I ask again, whatever or whoever gave you the idea that meaningless, empty sex with a woman who is purely there to make money, would be fulfilling?
Essentially true. According to even this map, prostitution is legal or minimaly restricted in Canada, Mexico, the rest of South America and most of Western Europe. It is legal in most of the Western world except for the US.
In many other countries, prositition might be technically illegal but rarely enforced. If this map is true, prositition is illegal in Thailand, Phillipines, Cambodia, South Korea??? Please give me a brake, these laws are definitely not enforced in these countries. Same goes for Russia, Ukraine, etc. Just about the only countries other than US where prostitution is practically illegal are Muslim countries of Africa and Asia. So much for the US being the country "of the free".
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