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Of course I would be heartbroken.
I don't even know how we got to that point I really don't.
Of course you do. You didn't black out and wake up in his arms. You let your desire take the lead. There were many points in the process where you could have said, "Hey, you're taken. Cut it out." I've been there, so I sympathize, but you've got to get your head on straight. You're still wondering why he backed off and believe that he shouldn't be with the mother of his child.
You can't slip off the cliff if you don't walk near the edge.
All I meant was he is telling his mum and sister he doesn't love her anymore and us unhappy then why not leave
He can still be a dad.
I don't believe him spending the night with me are the actions of a happy man.
All I meant was he is telling his mum and sister he doesn't love her anymore and us unhappy then why not leave
He can still be a dad.
I don't believe him spending the night with me are the actions of a happy man.
I think he has feelings for you, but his son comes first and that is the reason why he's backed off. As long as he thinks staying with his son's mother is best for his son, you have no chance with him. I'd support him by breaking off any contact with him by politely refusing any communications with him. Doing anything else will put you in a Lose-Lose situation. It's best if you move on.
I always replied to him but I never once initiated contact with him
I would try and move on and he came back
And?
You can't rewrite your own history, You ALLOWED it to happen.
Who contacted who first really doesn't matter. The talks and acts all took place becuase you allowed it in to your life.
You can't disassociated yourself from the behavior by telling yourself if you where the receiver and not the initiater that it was "not your fault"
It's faulty logic placed in an attempt to get what you want without the personal responsibility attached. It's preemptive blame placing so if things do not go a way you want you can just wash your hands of it all and come away clean like you have been viticimized by those who surround you.
It wasnt just something that "just" happened, it's something that you let happen.
I'll never understand the ideolgy because "you where not the one to place the call" that "you where not part of the conversation that followed"
I'm angry at myself for letting it happen.
I let my heart rule my head..there's no explanation for my behaviour.
I have been really selfish I know that.
I've never done anything like this before
I'm angry at myself for letting it happen.
I let my heart rule my head..there's no explanation for my behaviour.
I have been really selfish I know that.
I've never done anything like this before
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