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A few days ago, I had a day off from work (I had been working an awful lot recently and so I had really been looking forward to my day off)
My boyfriend was out to go to a job interview and he was also going to test a game company's video game.
I'm really enjoying myself, and relaxing at home. My boyfriend rings me to tell me that he is finished with his job interview and wants to know if I want to meet him so that we can do something together. So, I agree to meet him.
After taking a shower and having some lunch, I head out to the train station to travel to meet him. I check my phone, and notice I've missed a whole lot of calls from him. He's ringing me and so I pick up - he's like this is only the eight time I've tried to ring you, and so I apologize. He's wondering where I am and so I tell him that I'm getting on the train.
I arrive at the station where I am supposed to meet him, however he texts me to tell me that he is of to his video game testing and that I should meet him after that.
4 hours later...
I'm waiting for him inside a shop and so I text him to tell him to meet me there because I know he is close by and he told me earlier that he wanted to get some food from there.
After about fifteen minutes, he's still not turned up to meet me. So, I check my phone and notice that I've missed to calls from him. (I didn't hear because of the music playing in the shop) and he's also texted me to tell me that he's waiting outside of the shop.
About a minute later, he finds me in the shop. He is so angry, and hardly even says hello and as I lean in to hug him he frowns at me and pulls away. I'm feeling pretty shocked and just confused.
We walk out of the shop, he still hasn't said anything to me. He's walking ahead of me as we are on the sidewalk. I tell him that I'm sorry, and he keeps telling me "No" as if he doesn't want to hear it. He's like "lets just go home, might as well" and then he's like "tell me what you want to do now, what do you want to do? What are we even doing?"
We start arguing/talking and he is so mad with me. He starts telling me how I am so BAD at communicating with him, I tell him that it was all an accident and that I didn't realize my phone was on silent. He starts saying all this stuff like we just don't work as a couple, and how apparently I never answer his calls (which is utter crap).
We walk past a train station and he's like I'm just going to walk home, you can go and get the train if you want to. I tell him I want to stay with him and he's like "Uh, okay"
He starts telling me how he's never ever going to call me again and that I should just pretend his phone is dead and that he doesn't even have one. Then he's like "I'm never going out with you again, never, we're just going to stay home"
I try to show him some affection and apologize and he's like "get away from me, no, just stay away."
I tell him how I didn't mean to miss his calls and he's like " I don't trust you, you're lying, you're a lier" I then remind him that I love him and he's like mocking me and say's "that's crap,"
He's then like "you can get the train back, Im walking this way"
From his point of view: How could you miss so many expected calls and texts?!?
From your own point of view: I was just enjoying my day and lost track of everything.
This doesnt sound like a one time deal. It sounds like a prolonged series of events leading up to this day when things finally blew over.
Last edited by rego00123; 08-21-2015 at 02:26 PM..
Reason: Clarification
A few days ago, I had a day off from work (I had been working an awful lot recently and so I had really been looking forward to my day off)
My boyfriend was out to go to a job interview and he was also going to test a game company's video game.
I'm really enjoying myself, and relaxing at home. My boyfriend rings me to tell me that he is finished with his job interview and wants to know if I want to meet him so that we can do something together. So, I agree to meet him.
After taking a shower and having some lunch, I head out to the train station to travel to meet him. I check my phone, and notice I've missed a whole lot of calls from him. He's ringing me and so I pick up - he's like this is only the eight time I've tried to ring you, and so I apologize. He's wondering where I am and so I tell him that I'm getting on the train.
I arrive at the station where I am supposed to meet him, however he texts me to tell me that he is of to his video game testing and that I should meet him after that.
4 hours later...
I'm waiting for him inside a shop and so I text him to tell him to meet me there because I know he is close by and he told me earlier that he wanted to get some food from there.
After about fifteen minutes, he's still not turned up to meet me. So, I check my phone and notice that I've missed to calls from him. (I didn't hear because of the music playing in the shop) and he's also texted me to tell me that he's waiting outside of the shop.
About a minute later, he finds me in the shop. He is so angry, and hardly even says hello and as I lean in to hug him he frowns at me and pulls away. I'm feeling pretty shocked and just confused.
We walk out of the shop, he still hasn't said anything to me. He's walking ahead of me as we are on the sidewalk. I tell him that I'm sorry, and he keeps telling me "No" as if he doesn't want to hear it. He's like "lets just go home, might as well" and then he's like "tell me what you want to do now, what do you want to do? What are we even doing?"
We start arguing/talking and he is so mad with me. He starts telling me how I am so BAD at communicating with him, I tell him that it was all an accident and that I didn't realize my phone was on silent. He starts saying all this stuff like we just don't work as a couple, and how apparently I never answer his calls (which is utter crap).
We walk past a train station and he's like I'm just going to walk home, you can go and get the train if you want to. I tell him I want to stay with him and he's like "Uh, okay"
He starts telling me how he's never ever going to call me again and that I should just pretend his phone is dead and that he doesn't even have one. Then he's like "I'm never going out with you again, never, we're just going to stay home"
I try to show him some affection and apologize and he's like "get away from me, no, just stay away."
I tell him how I didn't mean to miss his calls and he's like " I don't trust you, you're lying, you're a lier" I then remind him that I love him and he's like mocking me and say's "that's crap,"
He's then like "you can get the train back, Im walking this way"
Seems like he has (apparently; finally) gotten a loophole to lay you off easily;probably he's been trying to break up all along
If he cared;he would at least listen and pay more attention to you
dump his butt forthwith. he doersnt want to call you anymore, oblige him, dont answer any of his calls anymore. dont text him, dont answer any of his texts. it sounds like he wants an excuse to leave you for another girl, or just leave you period.
move on with your life without him you dont need the aggravation he is laying on you.
All this chick does is come here and complain about this loser. The opening post will be her only contribution to the thread. She will ignore any and all advice offered, and then she'll pop up again in a week or two with the latest installment.
Amazingly idiotic, if you ask me.
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