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My wife bought me viagra recently, which I find really embarrassing. Not because I need it, but because the truth is that I'm not really that attracted to her these days. I've told her don't worry about it, it's not necessary, and every time we talk about it she talks as though the problem is with me but I don't have the heart to tell her that she's let herself go and I just can't get that excited about her. I appreciate the gesture of her getting me viagra but she doesn't understand that I don't need it. I want to tell her to lose weight, dress better, make an effort (to please as well as to look good) but it's really hard because I don't want to hurt her feelings. But if I don't say anything she's just going to continue thinking that I can't rise to the occasion, not realizing that it's her, not me. What do I do? is there a tactful way of letting her know We're both 41.
At times the brutal truth is what's needed mate. You obviously care enough which is good but the longer you leave it and say nothing the bigger the problems your marriage will have in the long run.
It's a vocal style, old man. Rappers don't rap 24-7, either. Wise up.
I was actually being sarcastic I know that's not her voice if that's what you meant?
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I keep waiting for Alissa White-Gluz to ring me up:
Rappers don't rap 24-7, either. Wise up.
I know that's not her voice if that's what you meant? 
