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Old 10-06-2015, 10:35 PM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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Originally Posted by Akonyo View Post
How are your looks? You need a combo of looks/height to attract a decent woman. Money doesn't really matter.
Hey Look pal, I'm a robotic scientist brought up in nerdy Central Joisey. I'm not walking down a fashion show lane.

 
Old 10-06-2015, 10:36 PM
 
Location: san diego
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Originally Posted by Adi from the Brunswicks View Post
You could hit on my cousins 6'2" husband in San Diego. Makes good money working for qualcomm and is a marathon runner. But he's content with his wife and kids.
Nah, I appreciate you offering him up but I would never look to another woman's man. Not cool.
 
Old 10-06-2015, 10:36 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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How are your looks? You need a combo of looks/height to attract a decent woman. Money doesn't really matter.
No, you don't. You need at least average looks, and a fun or charming personality. Though an outgoing personality can make up for below-average looks and below-average height. Honesty and the ability to make a woman feel like your attention revolves around her really help.
 
Old 10-06-2015, 10:41 PM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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We all know Adi is a piece.

Sorry to objectify you, Adi.
LOL, you haven't seen my face. I look like a doll .
 
Old 10-06-2015, 10:42 PM
 
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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Originally Posted by Adi from the Brunswicks View Post
Hey Look pal, I'm a robotic scientist brought up in nerdy Central Joisey. I'm not walking down a fashion show lane.
Except up in the forum's fashion section
 
Old 10-06-2015, 10:43 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth View Post
No, you don't. You need at least average looks, and a fun or charming personality. Though an outgoing personality can make up for below-average looks and below-average height. Honesty and the ability to make a woman feel like your attention revolves around her really help.
So now looks do come into play all of a sudden when everyone keeps claiming they don't. This is what I mean. It seems people don't want to state the truth, but I guess the truth hurts. Looks are a big part in whether anyone wants to be with someone. If you don't have the looks, than you need many other things to counteract it. And like you said, if you're short than you need to have an amazing personality.
 
Old 10-06-2015, 10:43 PM
 
Location: san diego
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Originally Posted by Adi from the Brunswicks View Post
LOL, you haven't seen my face. I look like a doll .
It's ok, dollface. Proves that a sense of humor, intelligence, and a great personality go a long way.

Six feet and five grand don't hurt.
 
Old 10-06-2015, 11:29 PM
 
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Oh please the same song and dance.

Average guy approaches hot woman and is in disbelief that she's not interested. Just because you approach someone doesn't mean they "have" to accept your advances. And yes a lot of hot women want a certain caliber of man why not? Just like you feel entitled to a hot woman a hot woman can feel entitled to a wealthy man.

The problem lies when men continue to try to obtain the impossible and the rejection continues to fester the bitterness. Stop trying to play in the major leagues when you don't have the equivalent talent. I know it's not easy to accept you're not apart of that 10% but no one ever said life was fair.
 
Old 10-06-2015, 11:35 PM
 
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You keep saying you can't date someone you're not attracted to, but you're telling everyone else they need to lower their standards. Why are you the exception? You're not making sense.
Exactly!
 
Old 10-06-2015, 11:36 PM
 
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Well, I'm not actively looking for a g/f like some other guys are. And I can't be with someone I'm personally not attracted to, & no one should date someone their not attracted to either. But eventually if nothing is working for someone, they might have to be realistic & think about what type of women their going after or else they could risk being alone for a very very long time. Not everyone realistically is going to get with an attractive woman.
OKay so are you going to adhere to your own advice?
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