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I am an attractive mid 30's guy who is sick and tired of seeing this lame sentiment on here. I have asked out MANY women who were very attractive on dates, and have routinely been blown off by these women. This is because I live in a major city and I only have an "average" job. I'm not rich but I have no debt and support myself just fine, and surprising as it may sound, I actually have a decent personality to go along with my good looks.
But it doesn't matter. If you don't meet a woman's "check list" she will reject you. So lets cut out the nonsense that "beautiful women have it just as hard! They NEVER get approached by men!"...what that really means is she never gets approached by men SHE DESIRES i.e. Doctors, Lawyers etc.
Looks don't matter much to women. Money is the female version of looks. A short fat bald ugly guy who is rich is the equal of what Jessica Alba looks like to a dude. It really sickens me, but that's the truth.
Lets cut out the LIE that the reason some very attractive women are single is because "they never get approached" because from my own life experience, this simply is not the case at all. I am, as they say, living proof that this theory is complete and utter BUNK. They get approached ALL THE TIME, just not by Doctors and Lawyers. The truth hurts.
It angers me, because women expect MUCH more from a guy, than a guy expects from them. Sure, I want a woman in good shape. But I keep myself in good shape, so why is that a problem? Yet on the hand, women want a RICH guy but what do they bring to the table? "Oh I'm hot!!" they will say. So what? So am I!! They want much more than what they themselves can offer. THAT is what turns me off to women and dating so much. Done for now.
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Since the OP didn't even bother to ask a question, I will. Why do people make a new forum handle to spout nonsense? I suppose because they know it's nonsense in the first place. Not sure what you expect from this post OP, but good luck with the bitter pill that is your life. Now swallow.
p.s. When someone on here feels the need to state "I'm attractive", well I wonder. Post a pic, and we'll be happy to let you know.
I actually agree with him. The fact is, a lot of very attractive women simply will not go out with someone they consider beneath them in appearance or if he isn't well healed.
That's odd of you to believe, considering strangers have no clue what another person's job is unless you flaunt it.
If a guy approached me, how would I know what he does for a living? I wouldn't. I would judge him based on how he approached me, what he says, whether he is groomed, whether he seems genuine and whether I'm feeling up to spending time with the stranger.
I don't judge whether to befriend or romance with people based on their jobs. I'm single because no one approaches me but crazy people.
Few weeks ago. I was approached by a guy. He went into how he's in a divorce and his second wife and before I even knew what he looked like or what he does for a living or whether he's dressed, I was already walking fast and thinking to myself "yeahhhhh, no. Lord have mercy, please don't ask me on a date, I'm gonna say I have a boyfriend."
It couldn't possibly be that you are getting turned down for any number of reasons..from being rude, bad breath or just a general bad vibe you are giving off?
If you want to be successful with dating women...it really helps if you like women as human beings first.
I am an attractive mid 30's guy who is sick and tired of seeing this lame sentiment on here. I have asked out MANY women who were very attractive on dates, and have routinely been blown off by these women. This is because I live in a major city and I only have an "average" job. I'm not rich but I have no debt and support myself just fine, and surprising as it may sound, I actually have a decent personality to go along with my good looks.
But it doesn't matter. If you don't meet a woman's "check list" she will reject you. So lets cut out the nonsense that "beautiful women have it just as hard! They NEVER get approached by men!"...what that really means is she never gets approached by men SHE DESIRES i.e. Doctors, Lawyers etc.
Looks don't matter much to women. Money is the female version of looks. A short fat bald ugly guy who is rich is the equal of what Jessica Alba looks like to a dude. It really sickens me, but that's the truth.
Lets cut out the LIE that the reason some very attractive women are single is because "they never get approached" because from my own life experience, this simply is not the case at all. I am, as they say, living proof that this theory is complete and utter BUNK. They get approached ALL THE TIME, just not by Doctors and Lawyers. The truth hurts.
It angers me, because women expect MUCH more from a guy, than a guy expects from them. Sure, I want a woman in good shape. But I keep myself in good shape, so why is that a problem? Yet on the hand, women want a RICH guy but what do they bring to the table? "Oh I'm hot!!" they will say. So what? So am I!! They want much more than what they themselves can offer. THAT is what turns me off to women and dating so much. Done for now.
Um ok.
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