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So I would like to ask guy what goes on in your mind after sex.
I met this guy, very nice guy. We went out a couple of times. then when he made sure I didnt want a relationship with him he texted me asking if I wanted to go over to his house at 10 pm. Which I did. and did a few more times after that on my request :P
Sex was great, and he was super sweet, but right after sex he would cuddle me for a little and then I would feel a weird tension. The first time he told me he doent like to sleep with people but that maybe I could sleep there another time (which I thought at least it wasnt just one night stand thing). When I texted him to meet again cause I really wanted to be with him again, he was excited about it. But again, after sex, he would get all cold and not confortable.
After the third time he told me he just wanted us to be friends because things would get complicated. I told him yes absolutely!
So now my question is: What happens to guys after sex? they realize they are not with the right woman? do they feel guilty? can they just enjoy it and have fun the whole way through?
And why stop it when you can just enjoy the sex with no strings attached?
And of course I have feelings for him, and he knows, but, How could I sleep with him if I didnt?
A guy releases millions of sperm through sex. And can do it again relatively soon.
A woman has only one egg about every month that can be fertilized.
In higher evolved primates (humans), a woman inherently takes sex more seriously as her one egg is more valuable than the millions of sperm a guy releases and can release at least once a day or more.
After sex, I think about how awesome the sex was. I enjoy being with the woman that I'm having sex with, otherwise I would not be having sex with her. I'm usually fine with sharing a bed and sleeping together after sex.
I'm usually sleepy and will nap for about an hour which gives you just enough time to shower and get out.
Don't forget to make me a sammich before you leave.
I dont get it. even if it's just sex, why can't the atmosphear afterward be cool and nice. Sure it was just sex, but why all the coldness and awkwardeness afterwards. Behaving like that makes it a bad thing. otherwise it would be a perfecly fine thing. So it's just that the guys turn moody after sex? or they lose the attraction and ask themselves why did they do it with that person?
Even if he is not interested, if a guy has sex with a woman usually he finds her attractive right? especially if the guy is an attractive guy and definitely not desperate.
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