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I would like to get your thoughts on why she texted me. Our relationship ended bad we were both in love but on and off for the last few months of a two year relationship. She ended it and ignored me for the longest time I begged pleaded and cried and she wouldn't take me back. The one time we talked when I begged she mentioned I'm not saying we are over for good but we need this space to figure things out and we are basically not together anymore. Anyways Went into nc with her and 4 weeks later last night she texted me wishing me a happy belated birthday and she told me you may not think so but not a day goes by and I don't think of you. Take care. I replied after a while with thank you. Then she texted me saying how sorry she is for how bad and hurtful things ended and it was the only option to let go off me. And how she doesn't regret it because she feels more at peace and she's letting go of all the bad thoughts she had of me towards the end of the relationship. She said we can reflect and think clearly of what happened with us because of this space. She said I hope you don't hate me for what I did and her love for me is the same and she wants me to be happy even if it can't be with her anymore. Then I said I honestly think this space was the best thing to do in our situation and I don't hate you and I wish you nothing but the best. Goodnight. Any thoughts?
Honestly, that was pretty cruel for her to reach out to you again. If you cried and begged for her to take you back, she knows that she hurt you pretty bad. She contacted you to feel better about herself, had nothing to do with caring about you.
Delete and block her, nothing good can come of this..
Honestly, that was pretty cruel for her to reach out to you again. If you cried and begged for her to take you back, she knows that she hurt you pretty bad. She contacted you to feel better about herself, had nothing to do with caring about you.
Delete and block her, nothing good can come of this..
And it wasn't cruel and manipulative of him to cry and beg when she wanted space?
Sounds to me that she wanted closure. Now that she's gotten it, you likely won't be hearing from her again, except for another happy birthday or other holiday greeting. At best, you're now delegated to the friend zone. Time to move on.
I would like to get your thoughts on why she texted me. Our relationship ended bad we were both in love but on and off for the last few months of a two year relationship. She ended it and ignored me for the longest time I begged pleaded and cried and she wouldn't take me back.The one time we talked when I begged she mentioned I'm not saying we are over for good but we need this space to figure things out and we are basically not together anymore. Anyways Went into nc with her and 4 weeks later last night she texted me wishing me a happy belated birthday and she told me you may not think so but not a day goes by and I don't think of you. Take care. I replied after a while with thank you. Then she texted me saying how sorry she is for how bad and hurtful things ended and it was the only option to let go off me. And how she doesn't regret it because she feels more at peace and she's letting go of all the bad thoughts she had of me towards the end of the relationship. She said we can reflect and think clearly of what happened with us because of this space. She said I hope you don't hate me for what I did and her love for me is the same and she wants me to be happy even if it can't be with her anymore. Then I said I honestly think this space was the best thing to do in our situation and I don't hate you and I wish you nothing but the best. Goodnight. Any thoughts?
Man up, that stuff aint sexy?
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