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In time she will be grateful to have dodged the drama queen bullet.
Yeah, guy MUST be a drama queen if he has a problem with being with a women who has a porn star resume'. Also lied about it as well! Yup, has to be him.
He's only dating a complete superfreak, but who care's right, because the girl can do no wrong. And if he doesn't like it, surely it must be him. He must be obsolete, weak minded, "little" and pathetic.
And of course it would be "her" being the one who dodged the bullet. After all, she's infallible and unquestionable. His insistence of a "normal" girl is completely unrealistic too.
I love this section. I truly do. Some women can switch anything to make the guy at fault. Go ahead and lash at me. I can take it, but I think some people have lost sight of reality on here.
Perhaps many of the women in this section have sissified so many posters on this site that they can't even smell their own sh t anymore.
Last edited by johnnyb1980; 11-11-2015 at 10:59 PM..
First of all, if your wife is one of those "been passed around" types...from a man to another man, I can never respect you. I swear, if I'm sitting around with the guys and someone pulls out a video of your wife being rammed...I'm going to laugh you out my house. I mean, we could still be friends..but damn, Id have jokes for days.
Secondly, a girl worth marrying should not have slept with more than three men total, and that's being kind. Marry a virgin, almost without exception. Don't be fooled, there are plenty of virgin girls out there..I remember in college I knew at least 10 virgin girls, pretty too. Why settle for something else? Not unless the girl is worth it. When it comes to marriage, the rule is to marry a virgin. Very few exceptions exist...like maybe her first died. Or she was drugged. Or raped.
As for this pornstar, dump her like yesterday. There's a saying, never turn a ho into a housewife. Nothing wrong with being a ho...I mean, marriage isn't for everyone. But if one of my boys was going to marry a confirmed ho, I'd have to sit him down and be like..man, you need to have some respect for yourself and marry someone decent. And if it was my son? I would not attend the wedding and write him out the will.
On this issue, there is no compromise in my opinion.
I was looking through my girlfriend's facebook page recently and I found a message that said something about a porn video. I scrolled on without thinking much about it, but then when I went back to it I saw that it said "this is me" and there was a link. I clicked on it, and it was a very brief video of her having sex with someone. The video was 3 years old and only about 30 seconds long. I then scrolled on and in another message there was another link, but this time to a porn site. I tried not to think too much about what it might have been, and I hesitated for a couple of minutes, before clicking on it. When I clicked on it, it was an entire channel on the site containing over 100 videos of her having sex with various men. A few of them were of her kissing and fondling women, and in a couple of them she was with 2 men.
I was furious, so I called her and asked what the hell was all this. She didn't want to talk about it on the phone so when she came over I asked her again. It turns out that she's done a lot more than what I saw. I didn't bother asking any more questions because at this point I was speechless and extremely angry. I told her to go home and I haven't talked to her since. She's been sending me messages saying to talk to her but I just have nothing to say at this point. I'm extremely hurt, disappointed, and I can't be in the same room as her.
I know what I should do but at the same time a part of me wants to know the full extent of what she's been doing, not to mention that for all I know she could still be doing it. I don't know. But I just can't be around her.
Follow your instincts....RUN.
And, the fact that she didn't voluntarily tell you makes all of this worse. Aren't you glad you found this out though. Go get checked for STD's too.
OP - can you come back and finished the story please? The thread title mentioned some kind of "disgusting past" but nothing in the OP has referred to any such thing yet. Is there more to come?
First of all, if your wife is one of those "been passed around" types...from a man to another man, I can never respect you. I swear, if I'm sitting around with the guys and someone pulls out a video of your wife being rammed...I'm going to laugh you out my house. I mean, we could still be friends..but damn, Id have jokes for days.
Secondly, a girl worth marrying should not have slept with more than three men total, and that's being kind. Marry a virgin, almost without exception. Don't be fooled, there are plenty of virgin girls out there..I remember in college I knew at least 10 virgin girls, pretty too. Why settle for something else? Not unless the girl is worth it. When it comes to marriage, the rule is to marry a virgin. Very few exceptions exist...like maybe her first died. Or she was drugged. Or raped.
As for this pornstar, dump her like yesterday. There's a saying, never turn a ho into a housewife. Nothing wrong with being a ho...I mean, marriage isn't for everyone. But if one of my boys was going to marry a confirmed ho, I'd have to sit him down and be like..man, you need to have some respect for yourself and marry someone decent. And if it was my son? I would not attend the wedding and write him out the will.
On this issue, there is no compromise in my opinion.
How realistic is that if you meet somebody in your 30s man? Can't really define a girl by that number at that point. I understand if she had 10 guys by the time she finished college that would be a no go, but 10 years later that number means something completely different...Plus she can still be a keeper, nurturing, loving and loyal.
Are people still so gullible as to take this thread seriously?
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