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1. He punched your dog in the face
2. He lied to you about having a child
3. The child is on a different continent and you can't even handle that
4. He moved from HIS child to a different continent - great dad
This is so drama filled I would call your parents if I could.
Oh Jesus, what did I miss?? A 17-year-old dating a deadbeat dogpuncher? Awesome.
I appreciate every answer on here, but I realize that the people here do not have the same thought-process as me. So I will not be looking for answers here anymore. The type of answers I get here lack understanding, and are only focused on logic rather than feelings. Of course there needs to be an even mix. But this is simply lack of understanding, and I know because this is how I used to think too.
So I will not be using this forum anymore, thank you for your time
Oh, they don't lack understanding.
But you're right that they are focused on logic rather than emotions because that's what advice is all about - a cold, hard look at reality, rather than surrendering to your wants.
You started this thread with an appeal for solutions but it is clear that what you really desire is validation. Yet the fact that you couched your query in terms of seeking solutions should tell you that they - solutions, not validations - are what you need.
What you want and what you need are two different things. You need to realize the difference, then sensibly choose what you need. Is that hard? Yes. Life is hard sometimes. To paraphrase what John Wayne supposedly (but didn't really) say - it's even harder when you make bad choices.
Oh Jesus, what did I miss?? A 17-year-old dating a deadbeat dogpuncher? Awesome.
... Who moved here from another country after she met him online and lied to her parents about him. He now lives with her in an apartment but has no job.
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