Why don't more women have compassion on shy men (dating, love, personal)

[Frank Lucas]

I am aware that many women complain about there not being any good men or are irritated by the "losers" (in their words) who approach them on a regular basis. Yet, they refuse to actually talk to the men that they like behind the guise of "it's a man's job to approach." Actually, I think it's because they themselves don't want to be rejected.

So my question is, if they KNOW that no one wants to be rejected, why do so many women write guys off for being shy with women or for "lacking confidence"? You would think that since they obviously have the same issue, they would have more sympathy and understanding, no?

[CSD610]

Why do men insist on continuing to start threads just to bash women when they know that men do the same thing that they have started the thread about.

Move on already, understand and accept that anything and everything men and women do the exact same thing, it is part of life, deal with it.

[Katiethegreat]

I absolutely love the shy ones,so do many women.

[CSD610]

Originally Posted by gumisgood

Your problem is thinking women are rational to begin with.

yeah, we get it, you hate women, perhaps you should spend your free time finding yourself a good man who can make you happy?

[CSD610]

Originally Posted by Katiethegreat

I absolutely love the shy ones,so do many women.

Now katie, you know you fall in love with everyone.....

[gumisgood]

Originally Posted by CSD610

yeah, we get it, you hate women, perhaps you should spend your free time finding yourself a good man who can make you happy?

I find most women distasteful but there are a few that are decent.

[usayit]

Rejection is part of the game..... no need to place blame on either side or make generalizations based on it.

[Frank Lucas]

Originally Posted by CSD610

Why do men insist on continuing to start threads just to bash women when they know that men do the same thing that they have started the thread about.

Move on already, understand and accept that anything and everything men and women do the exact same thing, it is part of life, deal with it.

I'm not sure if men do exactly the same thing, but hmm, then again... maybe.

I just think it's illogical for a woman to totally write off a shy male if she herself is a shy person, especially if he at least takes the time to try to talk to her.

I'm talking about women who basically write guys off JUST because they lack confidence or are a bit shy and not for any other reason.

[49ersfan27]

Women don't hate shy men, they just don't know them. PS, if a woman does hate shy men, she is not a woman worth dating.

[usayit]

Originally Posted by Frank Lucas

I'm talking about women who basically write guys off JUST because....

I personally wouldn't care much for a women who easily writes off people anyways.....

You cannot control what other people do... so I wouldn't spend too much energy being concerned about them.