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I went to a Christmas party at a frat house, a lot of people there. I started talking to a guy that Ive had a little bit of a crush on for the past 6 months, but he dates my friend. We had a few drinks, talked a lot, he told me he wasn't really happy with Rachel. Ive always been attracted to him, but Rachel is always around. She went home early to her parents for Christmas, so to make a long story short he invited me back to his place and we hooked up. Ive spent the last 2 nights over at his place, and I don't know if he plans to tell Rachel, or we're just having sex while shes gone. Anyway, I really like him, I think hes beautiful, sexy, charming, funny, and way way confident. Just didn't know what to do really.
I went to a Christmas party at a frat house, a lot of people there. I started talking to a guy that Ive had a little bit of a crush on for the past 6 months, but he dates my friend. We had a few drinks, talked a lot, he told me he wasn't really happy with Rachel. Ive always been attracted to him, but Rachel is always around. She went home early to her parents for Christmas, so to make a long story short he invited me back to his place and we hooked up. Ive spent the last 2 nights over at his place, and I don't know if he plans to tell Rachel, or we're just having sex while shes gone. Anyway, I really like him, I think hes beautiful, sexy, charming, funny, and way way confident. Just didn't know what to do really.
You could start by getting some self esteem and not sleeping with your friends' boyfriends.
Anything that happens to you now is sort of your own fault. He's probably using you for sex because he can. Even if he isn't, you should have waited for them to break up before you did anything.
Now you're going to lose a friend and you aren't going to end up with the guy. Hope the two days of sex was worth it!!
U went to a frat house to hook up with a guy that is dating someone else... ur friend nonetheless... and u think its going to turn into something more? good luck
Stop sleeping with him and tell him you've both made a huge mistake, ask that you please keep it between the two of you. Rachel is not your friend, you don't treat friends that way. This guy is using you for sex. He isn't way way confident, he's egotistical. He's an a** hole if he's going to cheat on his girlfriend with her friend. He'd do the same to you. Is that attractive to you?
The reason why you slept with him and the reason why he slept with you are different. You slept with him because you like him, he slept with you because his girlfriend is out of town and he saw an opportunity to get laid.
Simple case of....'When the desirable isn't available, the available becomes desirable.'
I slept with him because hes hot, and Ive heard a lot about him and I was curious if it was true. I didn't think it was gonna be more than a one time thing, but it has been. Which just made me think, is he gonna tell Rachel or should I tell her before he does, or do we just keep it a secret.
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Originally Posted by Posh90210
The reason why you slept with him and the reason why he slept with you are different. You slept with him because you like him, he slept with you because his girlfriend is out of town and he saw an opportunity to get laid.
Simple case of....'When the desirable isn't available, the available becomes desirable.'
I slept with him because hes hot, and Ive heard a lot about him and I was curious if it was true. I didn't think it was gonna be more than a one time thing, but it has been. Which just made me think, is he gonna tell Rachel or should I tell her before he does, or do we just keep it a secret.
Now you know.
It won't stay a secret, so you might as well tell her so she knows who she's dealing with.
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