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The problem is you're having sex once a month. What do you expect him to do? Where do you think all that pent up testosterone goes? You deserve to be cheated on.
If there is one thing men need to know about the women they are in a relationship with, whether its been 1 yr or 15 years, is this above.
Women will NEVER tire of romance. Flowers, a sweet card, a nice meal, gentle massage and praise for her being a good mother, a good girlfriend,..a good wife..blah blah.
Those things will get a woman in the mood faster that grabbing a boob or swatting her ass, or just jumping on her while grunting 'lets do it'. Cant believe any man over 25 doesn't know that yet.
From that other thread where her husband refused to give his immature stepson a ride to work after he blew up her husband's niece's car, I couldn't understand why the husband married her in the first place. The amount of baggage she dragged into the relationship would sink a battleship. I'm sure this guy is no prize. Otherwise, he would have married someone else. She's let herself go. She refuses sex. The relationship is in the toilet and neither of them is taking any steps to fix it. Of course the guy is looking at porn and at least fantasizing about hookers. I'd be fantasizing about the divorce attorney.
What planet is this woman from where she even has to ask about men looking at porn? 2/3 of men admit to looking at porn and the other third are probably lying about it.
I don't get the whole 50 Shades of Grey thing. I bought and read the three books. The writing is awful. I watched the movie. If it's possible, the movie is even worse than the first book. She is implausibly still a virgin as a graduating college senior. The first orgasm doesn't happen until about 2/3 of the way through the first book. Even more implausible, she actually changes the guy. Something that is 100% impossible in real life. Go read an old Harold Robbins book. They're well written. There's at least one orgasm per chapter.
The problem is you're having sex once a month. What do you expect him to do? Where do you think all that pent up testosterone goes? You deserve to be cheated on.
From my personal experience, sounds like he is seeing prostitutes. I was married for 10 years and he would look at documentaries and/or movies about hookers, escort services etc. etc. Well lo and behold, I found out he was cheating when the broad showed up at our home looking for home. Turned out she was a $100 per hour hooker with ads all over the internet and not even attractive but beauty is in the eye of the beerholder. It's time to wake up and smell the coffee especially if you want to avoid catching a disease. Please try to learn from my mistake and avoid future heartache with the ahole.
I don't mean this in any offending way but it sounds like you're not doing much to bring the romance on yourself. Maybe you ought to be giving him the swat on the ass and gazing back with bedroom eyes. Flowers and chocolates isn't being romanced; being playful is.
I see both sides, here. As a woman, I do think PLAYFULNESS is a turnon, but even that requires a bit more suave than just a swat on the ass, unless we're already in a playful mood. If the mood is already heightened, then a swat on my ass can be quite...worthwhile...
Did that make any sense at all?
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