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If your eyes, face, neck, chin or whatever is screwed up.....find another way to attract a man's attention.
Why would a guy go out of his way to talk to you when you look just like the other 15 women he sees everyday.
Either way ladies.....if you can't love yourself and the body that you have been given....No man will.
Insecurity will scare a man away much quicker than a defect.
Good luck.
You really can't make your personality "better" in the way that you mean. You can develop more interests, but if they're not actual interests and just a gimmick to make yourself more attractive to men, it'll become obvious pretty quickly. I guess you can develop a geisha-like demeanor, but it would probably be difficult to keep up this fake behavior for long and anyone who felt the need to act this way would likely become resentful and might well come across as needy and desperate, which is unappealing to all but would-be domestic abusers. Of course, genuine interest in others and concern for their needs is attractive, but genuine kindness doesn't stem from the desire to be popular with the opposite sex.
Working on your body can help, but women with plain faces and good bodies are often used for sex, so that can backfire. Facial surgery, where possible, is probably the best solution. I went that route, went from about a 4 to a 5 or 5.5, and was able to secure marriage from a boyfriend who was unsure about commiting to me and am still married going on 10 years later.
As for why a guy would talk to a woman who looked like many others, most can't attract exceptional looking women. The everyday man gets an everyday woman. Only a few do better.
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Why don't you single guys get off the relationship thread and go spend time with your hand?
My hand is too busy holding my vodka.
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