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Old 01-05-2016, 01:02 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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If HE had wanted to ask you to a movie, HE would have done so. HE didn't. YOU did. You basically shat where you work.


You don't get to control that.
He did ask me out. Learn to read
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Old 01-05-2016, 02:48 PM
 
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And all it takes is one opportunistic or ****-stirring co-worker to drop a dime. Accusations are all it takes.
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Old 01-05-2016, 02:53 PM
 
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He did ask me out. Learn to read
OP:

So is hanging out with someone the same as asking someone out?

I am referring to reply #104, which is your reply.
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Old 01-05-2016, 02:58 PM
 
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Okay then why flirt?! That makes no sense and he hinted
Are you sure he wasn't just being nice to you?
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:09 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Are you sure he wasn't just being nice to you?
There's always THAT problem where people confuse being charming with flirting of course........
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:32 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Well he kissed me and played with my hair so it must mean something!
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:34 PM
 
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Well he kissed me and played with my hair so it must mean something!
That wasn't appropriate on his part, if that happened. At any rate, you need to chock this up as a lost cause and move on. And don't try to date any other co-workers.
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:44 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Personally I still can't believe in America you CANT date who you work with ( in some jobs ) what someone does outside of work is their own business surely?

In the UK off hand I can't think of a job that specifically says you can't date.
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:47 PM
 
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Personally I still can't believe in America you CANT date who you work with ( in some jobs ) what someone does outside of work is their own business surely?

In the UK off hand I can't think of a job that specifically says you can't date.
Hon it isn't what they can or can't do outside of work that is the problem, the problem comes in when things don't work out and it causes big issues in the work place with the couple and all of the staff.
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Old 01-05-2016, 03:50 PM
 
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Personally I still can't believe in America you CANT date who you work with ( in some jobs ) what someone does outside of work is their own business surely?

In the UK off hand I can't think of a job that specifically says you can't date.
I mean, if you think it's your soul-mate, then go for it.

There's not usually a formal policy in place that forbids it. I think the idea that's generally frowned upon is hooking up with your co-workers in a casual manner. The repercussions and drama that ensue can be rather significant if not handled appropriately. OP comes across as a little younger, so I definitely do not think this is a good idea for her.
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