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Old 01-29-2016, 06:42 PM
 
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Errrr, maybe I'm going about it all wrong. I go out on a date, find out if there is any attraction and go from there. How else would I find out ahead of time?
Answer = you have to meet them first.
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Old 01-29-2016, 06:47 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That and eventually have sex?
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Old 01-29-2016, 08:01 PM
 
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Trial and error. It is the only way.
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Old 01-29-2016, 08:09 PM
 
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Pheromones
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Old 01-29-2016, 09:15 PM
 
Location: PANAMA
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For me is the smell, if they don't smell good when you are close to them, that´s an indication.

Another thing is the overall look, if there isn't something to turn you on dressed, when you see the other person naked well...that may be a surprise.

Also the kiss...good lovers are often good kissers.
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Old 02-03-2016, 03:39 PM
 
Location: Geauga County, Ohio
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What do you mean by "they are compatible"? Are you simply implying the "with me" at the end of the statement?




What do you REALLY want to know?
Are you just trying to make sure she isn't a cold fish???
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Old 02-03-2016, 03:51 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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The act of sex is basic lol. Theres nothing compatible about it.
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Old 02-03-2016, 03:55 PM
 
Location: Geauga County, Ohio
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The act of sex is basic lol. Theres nothing compatible about it.
I don't even know where to start about how inaccurate that statement is.
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Old 02-03-2016, 04:25 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Kissing may be a good, but far from foolproof indicator - if it's great then at least you have chemistry. But chemistry doesn't ensure you both have good enough technique that you can show the other person a good time. You have to have sex a few times to see if you can satisfy the other. Then you need to look over the longer term...anyone can have great sex for a few weeks...but later you find out the guy who was begging for it every day really only wants to a couple times a week once the "pent-up demand" was exhausted. Just because sex is good may not be enough if one of you wants sex 2 or 3 times more often than the other - resentment is pretty ugly.
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Old 02-03-2016, 05:16 PM
 
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The act of sex is basic lol. Theres nothing compatible about it.
Negative. It doesn't work that way.
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