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I don't expect sex after a first date, but if you're making me wait for a month or longer I'll chalk it up to the woman isn't interested and just using me for free meals. To which I'll tell her to stop wasting my time and stop seeing her.
Why don't you just tell her that you'd rather go dutch until she puts out?
I don't expect sex after a first date, but if you're making me wait for a month or longer I'll chalk it up to the woman isn't interested and just using me for free meals. To which I'll tell her to stop wasting my time and stop seeing her.
What if she is paying half?
What if she is not sure she trusts you yet?
What if you find yourself falling for her?
What if you found out she had sex in less than a month with every other guy she dated?
Why don't you just tell her that you'd rather go dutch until she puts out?
Well this isn't my problem seeing that I'm not single. But if I were single and dating to make me wait months for sex is unreasonable and I see the woman treats it as a weapon. No thanks and I don't waste my time with such women.
Well this isn't my problem seeing that I'm not single. But if I were single and dating to make me wait months for sex is unreasonable and I see the woman treata it as a weapon. No thanks and I don't waste my time with such women.
I would think that if you were dating a woman for months, you would know if she was waiting for sex because she wasn't ready, she was religious, she wasn't into you, or if she was using you. Or rather - I would hope that it would be obvious. I think that most men are willing to wait until a woman is ready as long as she doesn't have any hangups about sex in general that are making her wait a really long time. I never made anyone "wait." We simply had sex when we both wanted to have sex.
I would think that if you were dating a woman for months, you would know if she was waiting for sex because she wasn't ready, she was religious, she wasn't into you, or if she was using you. Or rather - I would hope that it would be obvious. I think that most men are willing to wait until a woman is ready as long as she doesn't have any hangups about sex in general that are making her wait a really long time. I never made anyone "wait." We simply had sex when we both wanted to have sex.
I'm willing to wait I'm just not waiting months for it. Life is too short to waste my time. Btw, I've been dating someone for a month now.
I'm willing to wait I'm just not waiting months for it. Life is too short to waste my time. Btw, I've been dating someone for a month now.
Where do you get "months"? Most people, even people who don't jump into bed immediately, aren't expecting anyone to wait for months. Like Dewdrop said, you'd know about your values and compatibility long before it got to that point and you could make the appropriate decisions.
I'm willing to wait I'm just not waiting months for it. Life is too short to waste my time. Btw, I've been dating someone for a month now.
I know. I'm just saying that I think that you'd be able to tell the difference between someone who was using you and someone who genuinely wasn't ready yet for some reason - religious, traumatic past, etc.
The good news for guys is that women are all the same and individually or collectively never send confusing signals.
It doesn't help when guys cannot accurately read signals.
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