What is the problem if you have slept with a lot of girls (sociopath, call)

[jjrose]

Originally Posted by OmegaSparks

Its not okay. But its not good advice either to tell men to be honest if all you want is sex, because most women don't just want to get laid in general.

If men followed that advice, they would have to deal with even more rejection and no success almost in online dating.

Somethings are also better left unsaid.

So you are saying that it's not ok to lie and manipulate, but they should do so anyways so that they can get laid.

Maybe men should either pay a pro to fulfill their needs, of maybe think about having a real relationship rather than using other human beings as they see fit, or deal with the fact that their lack of want for a relationship will limit their dating pool.

[torontocheeka]

Originally Posted by BMWluver25

Not all people want a real relationship. There can be a number of reasons for this regardless of one's age.

And not all men have sex 'just for the conquest,' as was your claim. In fact, the majority of men do not, once they grow up and become men.

[BMWluver25]

Originally Posted by jjrose

Your own posts show that you were not "obvious in your intentions".

Thats why I said in some cases.

[Hivemind31]

Originally Posted by torontocheeka

Real men want real relationships.

lol.

[jjrose]

Originally Posted by BMWluver25

Not all people want a real relationship. There can be a number of reasons for this regardless of one's age.
Doesn't make you any less of a real man.

Then concentrate on finding women that don't want a relationship and stop lying and manipulating women to fulfill your own needs.

[Hivemind31]

Originally Posted by torontocheeka

And not all men have sex 'just for the conquest,' as was your claim.

Did he claim this? Serious question: I didn't see it.

Edit: I see it now. Doesn't say all, but does say "as a general rule"....can't say I agree with that.

[hawaiiancoconut]

Originally Posted by OmegaSparks

Its not okay. But its not good advice either to tell men to be honest if all you want is sex, because most women don't just want to get laid in general.

If men followed that advice, they would have to deal with even more rejection and no success almost in online dating.

Somethings are also better left unsaid.

So, basically, lie to get laid, Lol.

[jjrose]

Originally Posted by BMWluver25

Thats why I said in some cases.

The whole thing revolves around HOW you are going about it, not the fact that you have slept with a lot of women.

IF you find like minded women and they want to hook up, great. But you are crossing a line when you start lying and manipulating to get your way.

[OmegaSparks]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

So, basically, lie to get laid, Lol.

pretty much

[BMWluver25]

Originally Posted by Hivemind31

Did he claim this? Serious question: I didn't see it.

Edit: I see it now. Doesn't say all, but does say "as a general rule"....can't say I agree with that.

I was trying to sum it up in a couple of sentences. Theres far more to it than that I agree.
Enjoyment, thrill of the chase, satisfaction, addiction. A few more reasons.