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Old 04-09-2016, 01:22 PM
 
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Been on 2 dates with her, been talking a few months

She was ranting and raving baout how shes more than just boobs and a vagina and shes not just a booty call (not directed at me)

She said to me" I'm just worried you'll lose interest and then just want to have sex if we hang out and then ignore me"

Did she basically just tell me she liked me without directly saying it
Oh boy...I am not saying anybody is perfect but someone who is bringing this amount of emotional damage into things when you haven't even touched her yet...yeah, I don't know, hon.

I'd back off.

She's putting her past hurts on you when you haven't even gotten "there" yet...not a good sign.
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Old 04-09-2016, 01:24 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Oh boy...I am not saying anybody is perfect but someone who is bringing this amount of emotional damage into things when you haven't even touched her yet...yeah, I don't know, hon.

I'd back off.

She's putting her past hurts on you when you haven't even gotten "there" yet...not a good sign.
Yeah it's like saying " oh my last boyfriend used to hit me, are you like that? "..........
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Old 04-09-2016, 01:25 PM
 
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no i have had sex with her. but we have continued talking. i am interested in her.

she didnt tell me this in person. it was a text
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Old 04-09-2016, 01:33 PM
 
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no i have had sex with her. but we have continued talking. i am interested in her.

she didnt tell me this in person. it was a text


Do you like drama? If so, continue on.

What have your previous romantic interests been like?
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Old 04-09-2016, 01:58 PM
 
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Yes she did because she's worried about you losing interest in her.
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Old 04-09-2016, 02:00 PM
 
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Yes she did because she's worried about you losing interest in her.
That would only decrease his interest surly?

Unless of course she wants him to feel sorry for her in the hope it would keep him around for longer?
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Old 04-09-2016, 02:12 PM
 
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She wants him to assure her that he will stick around,denotes high interest if you ask me.
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Old 04-09-2016, 02:18 PM
 
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She wants him to assure her that he will stick around,denotes high interest if you ask me.
Yeah it certainly shows high interest from her but I'm sure with most men they would find that off putting hence losing interest.
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Old 04-09-2016, 02:24 PM
 
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Yes I just expressed mega interest in a guy well not directly he read my diary which was all about marrying him,being crazy for him and whatnot, he ran for the hills! so yes it's offputting but not for someone who truly likes you as op seems to.
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Old 04-09-2016, 02:28 PM
 
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Yes I just expressed mega interest in a guy well not directly he read my diary which was all about marrying him,being crazy for him and whatnot, he ran for the hills! so yes it's offputting but not for someone who truly likes you as op seems to.
Yes I remember that thread ( )

You have a point and it may well be a valid one in regard to the OP, however he may well be the exeption as again a lot would " run for the hills "
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