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I've had a crush on a girl for 9 years now and after finally meeting her on facebook it feels like she's not interested in anyway...?
i was 11 when i liked her first...we were friends then(kind of) ...but after we didn't see each other..but i always used to think of her...but for the past 2 years or so my feelings for her have been growing so much..and i finally found her on facebook, sent her a friend request...she accepted it but after that when i try talking to her she ignores my msgs...even for a simple msg like "hey!..how are you?" she doesn't reply....and it hurts me reall bad...and i don't think i can get over her...is there anything i can do?...
(read this if you have too much time to spend)i guess i'll tell you how i started liking her..
we used to dance and stuff in church for special meetings...after a week of one of our performance i saw her outside the church with her mum...and i was with my mum......she saw me and got excited ( i guess) and she started jumping..and then i felt something that i've never felt for a girl...for some reason i didn't react then but inside i felt like the happiest kid in the world...i didn't know it was a crush back then but a few years later i realized it was a crush and until now i can't stop thinking about her...
If it feels like she's not interested 100% of the time she's not interested. Gotta move on sorry.
Didn't you meet her at church? I would think that would be a plus, even if she is not also Indian. (My Indian friend received a lot of pressure to marry a gal from India, and was even given a timeline to find one or his parents would find one for him. He followed his heart and last month married an American).
not all christians are the same....some christians in india act almost like islam extremists...and our families are one of them....but thankfully i'm an atheist now...can't say the same about her :/
You have placed her on a pedestal and are in love with that notion. That rarely reflects reality.
You are young! Lots of opportunities will cross paths and sooner or later, someone else will steal your heart... give it time... go out and have fun.
This. OP, You really didn't know her. You are infatuated by the idea of her. Try to stay busy and put your mind on other things for the next few weeks/months. There are plenty of fish in the sea and before you know it you'll be on to the next one.
not all christians are the same....some christians in india act almost like islam extremists...and our families are one of them....but thankfully i'm an atheist now...can't say the same about her :/
not all christians are the same....some christians in india act almost like islam extremists...and our families are one of them....but thankfully i'm an atheist now...can't say the same about her :/
Then you are already incompatible! No matter how hot she may be, if she's a Bible-thumping fundy, you are WAY better off without her!
Hit the gym, that will burn off excess energy and make you more attractive to some, but more importantly when you like what you see in the mirror, life will get better. It did for me.
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