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Old 07-05-2016, 07:48 AM
 
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Hi all,
Not looking for negavity just some help.
So here's the situation. I meant my bf a year ago he had told me I'm arrived we're getting a divorce she was cheating all me, all checked out to be true. Until Jan 2016 he allowed her to stay I'm the "martial home" than move into one of his rentals rents free with with her bf.

After she moved out he asked me for help with his banking and bills. We came to find out she took over $17k out of his account over those last few months
So he changed his banks and credit cards to stop her from having access. That's when trouble started.

Recently she's had her bf show up the house and scream in my face and get aggressive. And she told her lawyer 1- I assaulted her 2- I steal her mail and 3- that she's going to petition to have me removed from the said martial home.

Now two things 1- I never did any of that and if she thought I was stealing her mail , why in 7 no the has she not changed her address?

2- my bf seems to defend her and jump for her but claims no love. Like when I read what the lawyer sent I got upset and yelled and him and his reaction was get out of my home she's not the trouble let you are.... My reaction really? A thief whp cheated..


That's the side you're going to take? Than he apologized. and two weeks prior she had went to his Florida house sold all his furniture, denied it, and left o by his golf clubs than had the balls to ask for a favor. And he was going to do it....

What do I do? I don't wanna be critized for jabbing a technically married bf , what I wanna know if why does he jump for her and do I leave, is there still something there, why else would you deal with that?
Any advice or input would be appreciated
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Old 07-05-2016, 07:57 AM
 
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Better question; 'Why are you there?'

He's married and said to get out of his house because you are trouble.

Again, why are you still there?
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:04 AM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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Don't know what is so confusing or why you are unsure. The whole thing is a cluster of a mess. Find your own place, and find a new boyfriend.
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:08 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Wait till he is divorced. Until then, live your life.
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:26 AM
 
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OP:

Why are in involved in this much drama just to have a boyfriend?

Why are you involved with a man who is not single?
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:34 AM
 
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Don't allow a man to tell you that he doesn't want you more than once.
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:38 AM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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This has Jerry Springer written all over it. You should not be involved in his divorce, why are you reading what the lawyer sent? It has nothing to do with you. You seem to have an unhealthy connection to the mail that comes to your boyfriend's house. And an unhealthy relationship with your boyfriend. Get out now.
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:39 AM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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Wake up and smell the coffee.
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Old 07-05-2016, 09:06 AM
 
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Not your husband, not your house, not your problem.
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Old 07-05-2016, 09:55 AM
 
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Well he doesnt know how to use email so he told his lawyer email me. Otherwise I don't open anything....
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