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Thing is: It ain't about You. This is about a mother and her daughter going off to college. So chill tf out, quit being selfish & let them have their once in a lifetime mother/daughter experience. ~ ~ ~ Your girl's starting a new chapter in her life (close to you, btw!) so why ruin it with self-doubt & insecurity . . . Relax.
Been dating this girl long distance for a few months now long distance but she's moving up around my area for uni in septemeber.
It's been going great we've had a few days out together by going down to visit her and we talk every day and get on really well, and we have a lot in common.
However, concerns are starting to creep in, yesterday I went to help her and her mum move stuff into her new uni house. At the end her mum went round taking pictures purposely leaving me out of it which was fine by me. At the end she wanted a picture of me and her, which she took.
Then we went for a meal after and the whole day was great.
The problem is that the mother put all this on facebook, but she left the picture of me and her out of the uploads, and she failed to acknowledge my presence at the meal later.
I get the impression that she didn't want someone online finding out about us, this despite her telling her friends and colleagues about me and having a picture of me and her in her purse.
I had a feeling that she's also in contact with her ex too because I saw him post on her wall, but she ignored it
I may be overthinking it but i've been messed round with in the past and i dont want it to happen again. Im just a little concerned and dont know whether to confront her.
follow your intuition, that gut feeling deep within...ask her about it...tell her your reservations and at the same time, explain to her, the importance of honesty in a relationship, that without it, there is nothing.
I know where this goes...first it's the picture and the Facebook post from the ex. You bug her about it because some girls have done you wrong. Then it is some other piece of "evidence" and you have the doubts again. You bring it up and don't really trust her answer. Look, I understand you have been screwed over, but so have most if not all of us. I am sure that your girlfriend wouldn't like to be compared to those girls, and all you would succeed in is driving her away. I think that you need to find some way to put those experiences in the past so you don't drag them into what could be a good relationship and ruin it.
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