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But I'm not projecting with the lawyer as she returns my affections. But I understand where you guys are coming from. It just seems Just a Guy is being unduly negative towards me and I don't understand why. I am the first to admit that there is dysfunction in my life regarding relationships. But I feel that people see my interactions with women as being intentionally hurtful, which they are not.
It's almost like I'm not allowed to make mistakes without being scrutinized and insulted as though there was something outrageously wrong with me. I'm codependent. I'm not violent or abusive, I'm not a druggy, I don't cheat, I'm not a liar, I'm punctual, and I treat women with respect.
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But I'm not projecting with the lawyer as she returns my affections. But I understand where you guys are coming from. It just seems Just a Guy is being unduly negative towards me and I don't understand why. I am the first to admit that there is dysfunction in my life regarding relationships. But I feel that people see my interactions with women as being intentionally hurtful, which they are not.
It's almost like I'm not allowed to make mistakes without being scrutinized and insulted as though there was something outrageously wrong with me. I'm codependent. I'm not violent or abusive, I'm not a druggy, I don't cheat, I'm not a liar, I'm punctual, and I treat women with respect.
And you do yoga.
Dude, in another thread you bragged about being a grade A prime jerk, and you're looking for compassion? Get out of here.
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No I didn't. I'm not a jerk and I never said that. You've got me confused with someone else.
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So I'll just go right to the front and pretend like the other people are looking at the menu and haven't decided what they want yet. Someone might say "hey, the line is back here." I'll say "the line is wherever I say it is."
This is you screaming to the world "I'm a jerk! A big MFing jerk". You did, in fact, brag about being a jerk.
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It also doesn't mean I'm unable to have a legitimate long term relationship with someone. Codependency is not a life sentence of solitude.
It means you can't have a healthy relationship though, until that is treated.
Glad you worked through that whole co-dependency and rushing relationships thing.
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No I didn't. I'm not a jerk and I never said that. You've got me confused with someone else.
Maybe you have a bigger personality disorder then.
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I'll give you a small example. So, you know how people will stand in line at a restaurant or coffee shop waiting to order? Well, I can't stand it when people give maximum room for personal space. So the line ends up going out the door. If people would just scoot up a little bit, make the line a little tighter it would work for everyone. So I'll just go right to the front and pretend like the other people are looking at the menu and haven't decided what they want yet. Someone might say "hey, the line is back here." I'll say "the line is wherever I say it is."
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I don't view it as a line, I view it as a collection of sheeple who are too inconsiderate to realize there are people standing outside simple because they don't want to scooch up a little bit. And I will make short work of your MMA friend. Two hits: me hitting him and him hitting the ground. I'm a boxer. And I do yoga.
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