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Old 10-18-2016, 09:56 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles CA
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Originally Posted by oh-eve View Post
I think if you work 80 hours/week, you should either date a coworker or nobody. No matter how hot/rich/cool a guy is, I would reject him if he would tell me about such a work schedule.
I don't quite get why some people think they are capable of dating knowing they have a terrible work life balance.
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Old 10-18-2016, 10:23 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I don't quite get why some people think they are capable of dating knowing they have a terrible work life balance.
I honestly think the work thing is an excuse. Sometimes you have to MAKE time for something or take risks. People who spend too much time with the opposite sex should focus on work. But people who spend no time, or aren't successful with the opposite sex should not hide behind work to excuse themselves from having at least some dating experience.
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Old 10-19-2016, 10:22 AM
 
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and the overly aggressive guys get rewarded,,,,,

and a good percentage of these overly aggressive guys are ...yep overly aggressive,,,,,even abusive,,,or controlling..


the decent nice guys don't get the signals...or smiles
and these are the guys that will treat you like a queen
Oh I totally agree and the overly aggressive guys are the ones that are cheaters and players too. So if a woman doesn't know how to come across as approachable she's going to have the wrong type of guy coming after her.
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Old 10-19-2016, 10:24 AM
 
Location: The Jerz (NJ)
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I find that self-proclaimed "nice guys" aren't all that nice...
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Old 10-19-2016, 10:38 AM
 
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I find that self-proclaimed "nice guys" aren't all that nice...
You're probably overanalyzing it.
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Old 10-19-2016, 10:46 AM
 
Location: The Jerz (NJ)
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You're probably overanalyzing it.
yup, it's definitely my issue....
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Old 10-19-2016, 11:58 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I find that self-proclaimed "nice guys" aren't all that nice...
You're right. Some nice guys aren't actually nice but be careful unfairly labeling them all as not nice. You could miss out on an actual good man.
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Old 10-19-2016, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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You're probably overanalyzing it.
A lot of women tend to do that and push away a good man. Some people (men and women) just suck at choosing a partner and then turn bitter when they get screwed over.
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Old 10-19-2016, 12:48 PM
 
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I find that self-proclaimed "nice guys" aren't all that nice...
Yes, just like self-labeling "independent" women are not so much independent, but more like selfish pains in the butt.
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Old 10-19-2016, 12:50 PM
 
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A lot of women tend to do that and push away a good man. Some people (men and women) just suck at choosing a partner and then turn bitter when they get screwed over.
Truly nice people don't turn bitter when things don't do their way. Women would be well-advised to avoid men like this.
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