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Old 10-19-2016, 12:54 PM
 
Location: The Jerz (NJ)
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Yes, just like self-labeling "independent" women are not so much independent, but more like selfish pains in the butt.
agreed.
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Old 10-19-2016, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Truly nice people don't turn bitter when things don't do their way. Women would be well-advised to avoid men like this.
Agreed. Men should avoid women like this as well.

Frustration is one thing, but angry/being bitter is another.
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Old 10-19-2016, 01:00 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Truly nice people don't turn bitter when things don't do their way. Women would be well-advised to avoid men like this.
I agree 100%
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Old 10-19-2016, 01:15 PM
 
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Originally Posted by mainebrokerman View Post
you ladies need to consider a few things compared to decades ago

1. many men have "harassment culture" training in the workplace,,,which pretty much tells a guy don't even look at a woman,,,,,never ever give her a compliment,,and never ever talk about socializing......this gets ingrained in our lives...

2. yrs ago....all a man had to do is look to see if a lady is wearing a wedding ring.....
today its different....... many more lesbians today ,,,, and many women who will be quite harsh if a man approaches a lady to ask her out....
Neither of the above is going to be problem for any guy who has any sort of social intelligence.
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Old 10-19-2016, 01:18 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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A month ago, OP said she has cut her work to 55 hours a week:

http://www.city-data.com/forum/45471733-post41.html

working as a "stylist":

http://www.city-data.com/forum/45285406-post31.html

but two months ago she had an SO with a combined household income of $125k and she worked for a "national insurance company":

http://www.city-data.com/forum/45144536-post1.html

Sounds pretty stable.
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Old 10-19-2016, 01:33 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Aldaoudeyeh View Post
I am the type that you look for, but I am not in New York.

You will need to show these men that you might be interested because those that you want can be hesitant to approach a woman in the first place. Most woman we approach ends up being one looking for a short-term vibe instead of planning years ahead; they simply expect very high social skills as a primary criterion to accept men, and, unfortunately, these skills belong mostly to erratic men who have relationships with women for their bodies. And yes, they are too good at deceiving you and making you think otherwise (until he is done with your body then you get breaks your heart).

Funny how many guys say they are the perfect "nice/good guy" for women, yet their posts show very sweeping, broad negative characterizations indicating a deep underlying bitterness and insecurity.
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Old 10-19-2016, 01:35 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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A month ago, OP said she has cut her work to 55 hours a week:

http://www.city-data.com/forum/45471733-post41.html

working as a "stylist":

http://www.city-data.com/forum/45285406-post31.html

but two months ago she had an SO with a combined household income of $125k and she worked for a "national insurance company":

http://www.city-data.com/forum/45144536-post1.html

Sounds pretty stable.
She also stated in a thread that she has an Einstein IQ...
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Old 10-19-2016, 01:41 PM
 
Location: IN>Germany>ND>OH>TX>CA>Currently NoVa and a Vacation Lake House in PA
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Originally Posted by jaypee View Post
A month ago, OP said she has cut her work to 55 hours a week:

http://www.city-data.com/forum/45471733-post41.html

working as a "stylist":

http://www.city-data.com/forum/45285406-post31.html

but two months ago she had an SO with a combined household income of $125k and she worked for a "national insurance company":

http://www.city-data.com/forum/45144536-post1.html

Sounds pretty stable.
Thank you for adding some sense to this ridiculous thread. I knew it was a sham from the title, but a little proof goes a long way. Next up, the OP creates a new screen name and posts some more far fetched stories. I'd love to understand the psychology of that mind!

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She also stated in a thread that she has an Einstein IQ...
She is evidently wasting her talents as a "stylist"!
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Old 10-19-2016, 03:14 PM
 
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It's at least one of the following

1)you work too much
2) you don't give enough guys a chance
3)despite being a good job and being attractive there's something about your personality guys don't like.

Attractive women have tons of options- if you can't find a guy who treats you well look in the mirror.
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Old 10-19-2016, 03:22 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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She also stated in a thread that she has an Einstein IQ...
But, of course!
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