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I don't know why I put so much energy into this, when I am pretty much over the breakup, but my ex girlfriend, whom I dated for 3.5 months, treated me like crap most of the time and treated not only her current boyfriend, but also her boyfriend before me, so much better than she treated me. She posted a million pictures on social media with the boyfriend before me, and her current profile picture is a picture of her and her boyfriend, all dressed up, with "Thankful for Us" written on the bottom. She did not post a single picture of her and me except for prom pictures and one picture of me in an album of about 20 photos. Not once was I ever in her profile picture, and the guy before me was in a few, and now the guy after me is her profile picture as well. I have her completely blocked on my Facebook, and the only reason I know about this is that she came up on my dad's Facebook today under "people you may know" because my cousin is still friends with her on there (I couldn't care less about my cousin and her, that was just relevant to this post). Her boyfriend and she looked like they were in New York City too and all dressed fancy, and we never did stuff like that. I almost always had to initiate us hanging out in our relationship, and every time I asked her to hang out, she'd say "maybe" and then either not follow up at all or make a lame excuse as to why she didn't want to hang out. As for our sex life, there was none. We had actual sex one time and took a shower together another time but didn't go any farther since we didn't have a condom, and those were the only 2 sexual encounters between us. I tried other times but there were almost always tired excuses. And she dumped me because she lost her feelings for me as a boyfriend and then started dating her current boyfriend a week after the breakup. I am completely done with her as a person and frankly don't care that much about this, but it has me angry enough that I need to vent. My grandma thinks she treated me that way because I was so much younger than her (I am 18, she is 23), but I still don't think that's an excuse. What are your guys opinions about this, and how can I be completely indifferent to this rather than even caring in the slightest bit?
It doesn't sound like it was much of a relationship. It sounds like she wasn't into you, which would explain why she didn't broadcast to the world that you and she were an item.
For whatever reason, she felt it wasn't a good match, and wasn't into you. Let it go and move on.
Be thankful it was only 3 months, and not something like 3 years.
Still don't get why she waited till the 3 month mark to break up with you. It's clear she was never interested in you (probably from the onset I'd gather).
Be thankful it was only 3 months, and not something like 3 years.
Still don't get why she waited till the 3 month mark to break up with you. It's clear she was never interested in you (probably from the onset I'd gather).
Sorry
Nah, there were some times where she was really enthusiastic and into me, but those were few and far between.
She reads like a real catch. It wasn't a good match because she didn't try. Seriously you should have broken up with her 3 months ago.
Women can be brutal. Just forget about her and find another girl that will be more interested in you.
When she was breaking up with me, she admitted during the speech that she had said yes to me when I asked her out because she was so tired of being single at the time. And also claimed how she "just needed to be single right now because of her life." Then immediately got a new boyfriend. So this ain't new news lol.
When she was breaking up with me, she admitted during the speech that she had said yes to me when I asked her out because she was so tired of being single at the time. And also claimed how she "just needed to be single right now because of her life." Then immediately got a new boyfriend. So this ain't new news lol.
She said that, when she really meant that she didn't like you like that. It was an excuse, and one that a lot of people tend to use to breakup with someone they're not that into.
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OP, you got a hard lesson into dating someone who doesn't like you. Take it for what it is, do NOT contact her or look her up on FB and move on.
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