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Old 12-08-2016, 02:32 PM
 
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So many times were quick to blame others and we don't realize the problems some of our own actions bring to the table. I reflected hard on myself yesterday and there's so much I need to work on in order to have the long lasting relationship I've been hoping for
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Old 12-08-2016, 02:38 PM
 
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What flaws?
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Old 12-08-2016, 02:40 PM
 
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What flaws?
I can overreact, be emotionally needy, and my mood can swing often
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Old 12-08-2016, 02:47 PM
 
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I can overreact, be emotionally needy, and my mood can swing often
Oh, well I meant me. Jokingly insinuating I have none... Anyways...

A good relationship is based on two forgiving people. Sooooo if you find a girl that hardly ever gets too upset over your flaws then keep her.

You know, when you try to apologize about something you said or did that bothered you and she doesn't even recall the flaw.... Yeah, like that.
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Old 12-08-2016, 02:55 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I am perfect only other people have flaws.


On a serious note, yes, I do work on them. However, I am not sure if there really is a way to resolve the problem if you don't get brainwashed or switch partners.


So what is your plan on working on yourself?
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Old 12-08-2016, 02:58 PM
 
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I am perfect only other people have flaws.


On a serious note, yes, I do work on them. However, I am not sure if there really is a way to resolve the problem if you don't get brainwashed or switch partners.


So what is your plan on working on yourself?
I plan to just think before I make any drastic actions, to calmly address things that upset me without attacking, being slower to jump to conclusions
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Old 12-08-2016, 03:08 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I admit, I got flaws/issues, that I don't care to address, nor I have the inclination to.

My flaws is what makes me special
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Old 12-08-2016, 03:11 PM
 
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I admit, I got flaws/issues, that I don't care to address, nor I have the inclination to.

My flaws is what makes me special
Hi my name's Rome2300 and I am an addict

See how easy that was?
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Old 12-08-2016, 03:21 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I plan to just think before I make any drastic actions, to calmly address things that upset me without attacking, being slower to jump to conclusions
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Old 12-08-2016, 03:46 PM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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I plan to just think before I make any drastic actions, to calmly address things that upset me without attacking, being slower to jump to conclusions
So basically, you're gonna grow up! Congrats!
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