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Say a woman you met online tells you that she just wants to be friends "for now", still wants to hang out with you, but expects you to pickup the entire tab when you go out... is that a valid expectation? I guess I am asking what the expectation is of splitting the cost of dating these days when it's really "dating limbo" i.e. hanging in there to see if it becomes more than just friends?
My thinking was that when she mentions "just friends" it's automatically dutch whenever you hang out? Seems right?
This is also a scenario where you meet someone from OkCupid who lists what they are looking for as "a friend or dating"... so what are you initially? Just hanging out as friends? Or dating? How do you know? And who pays?
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