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Old 02-06-2017, 09:58 PM
 
Location: Fargo
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I will be tomorrow with a woman I have been talking to for a while. There has been a lot of sexual attraction between me and her using texting and pictures swapping. However, some of the attraction was emotional.

We agreed to meet at my place (first time we meet in real life) to have some casual sex, but now things are turning to be both of emotional and sexual nature. I wonder how to handle the situation properly. Any ideas?

 
Old 02-06-2017, 10:06 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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What is your goal? What would be your ideal outcome?

Did she say that the two of you are definitely having sex?
 
Old 02-06-2017, 10:12 PM
 
Location: Fairfax, VA
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Have you ever spoken to her -- heard her voice?

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Originally Posted by Aldaoudeyeh View Post
I will be tomorrow with a woman I have been talking to for a while. There has been a lot of sexual attraction between me and her using texting and pictures swapping. However, some of the attraction was emotional.

We agreed to meet at my place (first time we meet in real life) to have some casual sex, but now things are turning to be both of emotional and sexual nature. I wonder how to handle the situation properly. Any ideas?
 
Old 02-06-2017, 10:14 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Aldaoudeyeh View Post
I will be tomorrow with a woman I have been talking to for a while. There has been a lot of sexual attraction between me and her using texting and pictures swapping. However, some of the attraction was emotional.

We agreed to meet at my place (first time we meet in real life) to have some casual sex, but now things are turning to be both of emotional and sexual nature. I wonder how to handle the situation properly. Any ideas?
1 - be careful. These things can be scams, or, worse, an attack - probably not though.
2 - be careful. Wear a condom.
3 - be honest . Always a good thing to be.
 
Old 02-06-2017, 10:17 PM
 
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OP:
Meet in public and do not take her to your home
Check her photo identification
Do not plan on having sex until you know her better
Use triple protection
 
Old 02-06-2017, 10:37 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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Is this your first time?

Be smart, bring protection and have a swell time.
 
Old 02-06-2017, 10:56 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Oh its ON! for some Hulu and Chill.

Remember, under any circumstance, dont allow yourself to be Mod cut., especially if you've met her on Tinder.

Last edited by PJSaturn; 02-07-2017 at 07:29 AM.. Reason: Not PG-13.
 
Old 02-06-2017, 11:00 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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Just be safe, wear protection. Nothing wrong with this if that's what you both decided and agreed to.

I'm assuming you've spoken to her on the phone before, or at least hoping so.
 
Old 02-06-2017, 11:07 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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LOL @ "check her photo ID."
 
Old 02-06-2017, 11:10 PM
 
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Take a shower?
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