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Old 04-11-2017, 09:55 PM
 
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I suspect that when men fantasize about a woman it involves "The act" sooner rather than later. For women, about what do you fantasize? Not your husband but if you know a man well and find him attractive?
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Old 04-12-2017, 12:59 AM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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I fantasize about a man who isn't infantile and doesn't try to apply what he has learned from watching countless hours of porn into what he believes a 'relationship' constitutes. A man who understands his emotions and is capable of expressing them on a regular basis.

A man who is honest, happy, attractive, emotionally stable, and doesn't take himself too seriously. A man with a sense of direction in his life, goals and objectives, and the wherewithal to achieve them.

Clearly, this is destined to remain a fantasy. I may as well hope to find a unicorn in my backyard.
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Old 04-12-2017, 01:28 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I'm pretty sure women fantasize about "The Act" just as much as men, too. They're just more detailed in their fantasizing. (i.e) what color panties am I going to be wearing, trimmed or bald, etc. Lol
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Old 04-12-2017, 03:02 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Yep, we think about "it." A lot.

Otherwise, it's just "thinking." If I'm going to fantasize, might as well make it worthwhile.
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Old 04-12-2017, 03:13 AM
 
Location: Canada
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I don't fantasize about it at all... never did and probably never will. Maybe I'm a minority but for me, physical stimulation FAR exceeds any mental picture I could conjure up.
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Old 04-12-2017, 04:13 AM
 
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I only fantasize about men that make me feel sexy and attractive-mental connection is the most important. Attraction is more in the mind, for me at least. His voice would be in my head-saying...things
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Old 04-12-2017, 04:20 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I only fantasize about men that make me feel sexy and attractive-mental connection is the most important. Attraction is more in the mind, for me at least. His voice would be in my head-saying...things
"Things" like ...

"I got the oil changed in your car."

"Took care of that leaky faucet, babe."

That's the kind of mind-reading I appreciate. Aw, yeah!
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Old 04-12-2017, 05:30 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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I'm pretty sure women fantasize about "The Act" just as much as men, too. They're just more detailed in their fantasizing. (i.e) what color panties am I going to be wearing, trimmed or bald, etc. Lol
Yes....THIS...in MY fantasies I'm thinking about what I'LL be wearing?! Uhm no....I'm thinking about what HE looks like and what we're DOING.

Guys need to get out of their own heads if that's possible. Panty color...very important to my pleasure
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Old 04-12-2017, 05:33 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I suspect that when men fantasize about a woman it involves "The act" sooner rather than later. For women, about what do you fantasize? Not your husband but if you know a man well and find him attractive?
Have you got any lady friends? If so join them on a girls night out and you'll soon see mate!!! LMAO
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Old 04-12-2017, 06:17 AM
 
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Doesn't everyone think to themselves upon meeting someone new if they would be sex material? Lol!

Visiting Grandma's old folks home.... No! No! No! Oh Hex NO! NO! No! Well, hello there! (Nurse) haha!
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