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I'd like some advice on a strange situation. I was dating a girl last year and I finished with her, the reason being that she was quite frankly a horrible person.
I have tried to keep my distance from her but unfortunately she lives quite close to me. Of course I can avoid her as much as possible, and I've tried, but the problem is that she's so hot and charming, I can't easily do it. I keep running into her, and I know she wants to get back with me, and I've told her no several times but I keep ending up going back to her place (or her to mine) and well, you can guess the rest. I want to put her in the past but it's very difficult.
How can I avoid her seeing as she lives close to me? I've really tried getting the message across but she keeps coming back and I find it hard to resist.
I'd like some advice on a strange situation. I was dating a girl last year and I finished with her, the reason being that she was quite frankly a horrible person.
I have tried to keep my distance from her but unfortunately she lives quite close to me. Of course I can avoid her as much as possible, and I've tried, but the problem is that she's so hot and charming, I can't easily do it. I keep running into her, and I know she wants to get back with me, and I've told her no several times but I keep ending up going back to her place (or her to mine) and well, you can guess the rest. I want to put her in the past but it's very difficult.
How can I avoid her seeing as she lives close to me? I've really tried getting the message across but she keeps coming back and I find it hard to resist.
Stop resisting. Just get back with her, and you won't have this conflict.
So basically you're smart enough to know how to avoid her, yet 'she's so hot' you just can't resist. And it's not as if a thread full of folks telling you to move on is going to change your mind. 'She's hot', remember?
Did you start this thread just to see how many pages of replies you'd get?
If you want her to leave you alone, tell you what you really think of her. This is not guaranteed to work, however. People want what they can't have. Give her a "challenge" and she may want you that much more.
You could act like a beta male or nice guy. That'll scare her off.
I'd like some advice on a strange situation. I was dating a girl last year and I finished with her, the reason being that she was quite frankly a horrible person.
I have tried to keep my distance from her but unfortunately she lives quite close to me. Of course I can avoid her as much as possible, and I've tried, but the problem is that she's so hot and charming, I can't easily do it. I keep running into her, and I know she wants to get back with me, and I've told her no several times but I keep ending up going back to her place (or her to mine) and well, you can guess the rest. I want to put her in the past but it's very difficult.
How can I avoid her seeing as she lives close to me? I've really tried getting the message across but she keeps coming back and I find it hard to resist.
Even though it's clearly NOT a problem for you.........Meet someone else that's even more " hot and charming " and you won't bother
As it stands the only reason why she comes back to see you is because you haven't said no, Do it a few times and her level of interest should drop
The thread title made me LOL then the posts here...oh my, belly chuckle
I find this amusing mostly because my college boyfriend lives down the street from me and I have never run into him - and it has been years. YEARS. I drove by once though and he was mowing the lawn in his ratty old man Tshirt. I'm not counting that as "running into". How does the OP do it? Or did she implant a tracking device?
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