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She broke up with me about a month ago because after I graduated for 8 months I was stagnant in my life (living at home with my parents, doing nothing, we were also long distance). She's very driven and wishes I was but waited too long for me to change.
As she went in for her Master's I left the area. We're 6 hours apart now.
She wants to sleep with my friend(s) to **** me over and make me move on but she couldn't do it. They talked in the bedroom for a while and she left. Nothing happened. She texted me everything and said she wants me but only for sex. As well as what's stated in the title. I believe it's hard for her because we were each other's firsts.
Does she still have feelings for me? How do I get her back?
tl;dr: Ex-gf left me a month ago because I was stagnant after graduated for 8 months. She wants to **** me over by having sex with my friends but couldn't do it.
There are millions and millions of women out there. If you want her back, cut her off. If you want her to push her awayy more keep talking to her. She needs to know that you don't need her. Besides she why would you want her back after this anyway??? I guarantee she has slept with other people you don't know abou while yall have been "broken up".
She broke up with me about a month ago because after I graduated for 8 months I was stagnant in my life (living at home with my parents, doing nothing, we were also long distance).
Life takes work.
Relationships take work.
Why are you "doing nothing"? Do you have untreated depression? Some sort of health problem?
Phone the appropriate doctor on Monday and make an appointment.
Fix what is wrong -- get counseling, eat better, walk 10,000 steps each day -- whatever is necessary.
If you can't "afford" any of that, go volunteer with the elderly or at an animal shelter so that you have something to think about besides your stalled life. Trust me, lots of people have it worse off than you. Maybe seeing that will help.
The idea is to take action to get on with your life.
Maybe she'll come back. Maybe you'll attract someone better.
But I can promise you that nothing will change unless you do something that turns "stagnant" into "moving forward," whatever that means for you.
tl;dr: Ex-gf left me a month ago because I was stagnant after graduated for 8 months. She wants to **** me over by having sex with my friends but couldn't do it.
If you're broken up, why is she worried about whether you're moving on or not? It sounds like SHE hasn't moved on. If she broke up with you a month ago, you should be in the past for her. Why is she still attached to you in some way, trying to manipulate you? That's weird. Or have you been bugging her, since the breakup, so this is how she chose to deal with it?
Tell HER to move on. Then do something about YOUR life.
Last edited by Ruth4Truth; 10-14-2017 at 10:00 AM..
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