Vague statement, need help (dating, guy, sex, feelings)

[Buzhidao]

I've had a post about my relationship.

So long story short, I had an on-again-off-again relationship with a guy. Lately we got together again and I talked to him about taking down his online dating profile which freaked him out and he barely contact me now.

But the other day, ( after his pulling away) during the very brief texts we had, he told me that he reserved a cabin trip.

We previously talked about going on a cabin trip before things went south.

So with him saying that he booked a trip, did he mean he still wants to go with me? It's just a plain statement" I reserved a cabin on 27th"

Should I ask for clarity or should I just let it go? I do still have feelings for him.

Thanks folks!

[BirdieBelle]

You should let it go.

He does not appear to have feelings for you, but he will have sex with you occasionally if you relent. So ... he MAY have mentioned the cabin trip in case you were open to having sex with him again.

But after the way you two have been in the past, it would cause you MORE pain and stress if you started things back up again.

[skaternum]

Jeez Louise, ASK HIM.

Edited to add: Upon reading the rest of your other thread, leave this guy alone. Stop talking to him. Stop obsessing over him. Just drop it.

[MichaelBC]

tell him to have a nice time at the cabin and stop all communication with him.

I seriously doubt you will....it sounds like you are hung up on him and you will do anything to go to the "pork stabbin cabin" with him.

leave him alone and look for a healthier relationship...........

[Aura 524]

Originally Posted by MichaelBC

... it sounds like you are hung up on him and you will do anything to go to the "pork stabbin cabin" with him.

Pork stabbing cabin ... hopefully, by the time it gets dark, I'll figure out what might take place in those cabins.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Aura 524

Pork stabbing cabin ...

I really hope that was an autocorrect anomaly

[sonnymarkjiz]

Just leave him alone. He seems like he wants to just bring you to a cheap cabin, hook up with you, and keep you on the hook so that you'll be pressed on him. Just move on.

[Buzhidao]

He did text to apologize for not texting much, saying he's been stressed between work and looking to buy a house/finding a place to live.

[RbccL]

Originally Posted by BirdieBelle

I really hope that was an autocorrect anomaly

The stabbing, or the part where Aura seems to be planning on watching?

[RbccL]

Originally Posted by Buzhidao

He did text to apologize for not texting much, saying he's been stressed between work and looking to buy a house/finding a place to live.

If you want to go, then ask him who he's going there with.