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Old 01-25-2018, 01:07 PM
 
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I don't and won't approach men. Can't see that changing.
you must be really really attractive! Good for you!
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Old 01-25-2018, 01:18 PM
 
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you must be really really attractive! Good for you!
No. I just have no desire for passive men.
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Old 01-25-2018, 01:49 PM
 
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When a woman approaches me, I'm thinking she has an agenda and most of the time they do.

Less attractive woman approaches: needs help with something (directions, money, lifting something heavy)

More attractive woman approaches: trying to sell you something

Quite attractive woman approaches: Wants a donation for something

Very attractive woman approaches: Trying to scam you

These reasons are why I don't take a woman's approach serious at all nor I would encourage them to do it.
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Yes, they most definitely should be, considering a man making a move nowadays, is considered sexual harassment. I just found out from many women that telling them a compliment in public, saying hello or good morning or opening the door for them, is sexual assault. sooooooo
Absolutely true!!!
Nailed it!!!

And, no, I'm not just saying that because the more men that believe this tripe, the more more women for me.
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Old 01-25-2018, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Texas
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From my experience in dating, it never worked when I approached men first or asked them out. They seemed to be more interested in someone they could pursue. If men really want women to ask them out on dates, they should try saying "yes" once in a while to some of those women. Otherwise, I'm going to encourage my fellow women to not ask men out.
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Old 01-25-2018, 01:52 PM
 
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if you go back and read that posters history you will see that's a common occurrence lol
Still waiting to see where I said most women approach.

Of course, if you're so impaired that you can't follow the path, you might believe the path is moving.
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Old 01-25-2018, 01:55 PM
 
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From my experience in dating, it never worked when I approached men first or asked them out. They seemed to be more interested in someone they could pursue. If men really want women to ask them out on dates, they should try saying "yes" once in a while to some of those women. Otherwise, I'm going to encourage my fellow women to not ask men out.
What percentage of men who ask you out are you interested in?
What percentage of men who you've asked out have rejected you?
How many men have you asked out?
How many men have asked you out?

Do you believe you're drawing reasonable conclusions?
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Old 01-25-2018, 01:55 PM
 
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Absolutely true!!!
Nailed it!!!

And, no, I'm not just saying that because the more men that believe this tripe, the more more women for me.
Im affraid no matter what other men do, isnt going to help you any. you dont fail with women because other men see whats in front of them
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Old 01-25-2018, 01:56 PM
 
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From my experience in dating, it never worked when I approached men first or asked them out. They seemed to be more interested in someone they could pursue. If men really want women to ask them out on dates, they should try saying "yes" once in a while to some of those women. Otherwise, I'm going to encourage my fellow women to not ask men out.
If they say no its probably because they weren't attracted to the women who approached them not because of the approach itself
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Old 01-25-2018, 01:57 PM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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Still waiting to see where I said most women approach.

Of course, if you're so impaired that you can't follow the path, you might believe the path is moving.
That was in response to moving goal posts, nothing to do with women lol

Come on, if you are less impaired than I am you should be able to read what I wrote, and not infer things I didnt lol
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Old 01-25-2018, 01:57 PM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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From my experience in dating, it never worked when I approached men first or asked them out. They seemed to be more interested in someone they could pursue. If men really want women to ask them out on dates, they should try saying "yes" once in a while to some of those women. Otherwise, I'm going to encourage my fellow women to not ask men out.
I think women approaching or contacting men on OLD get a positive response far m ore often than men do when acting first. It's a particularly dramatic difference with OLD.
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